What if your boyfriend hasnt called you at all in the past 24 hours?

Question

Does that mean he's getting ready to end it, or am I just jumping the gun here?

We have been in an actually relationship for a little under a year, but we have known and been attracted to each other for like 4 years.

I tend to think this way because I'm not trying to get myself hurt here. I'd rather end it first.
I appreciate all honest answers thank you.

Answer 1

Yikes...psycho girlfriend!!!!

Freaking relax, it's only been a day! God forbid the boy have a life outside of being with you huh? Psycho..........

Answer 2

Maybe jumping the gun. If you are feeling this way maybe you need to look at why. Are there other things lurking in the back of your mind of reasons from him that you should feel this way. Or is this an insecurity you might have from the past or other realtionships with parents/friends? I only ask because I myself have a tendancy to not deal with all the things that are bothering me. I would wait and see what he says, if you don't believe him then maybe you need to check deeper. As my mom would say, people treat you the way you allow them to. I would stay calm and not let him know you are upset and wait to see what he says. If you are the kinda girl who wants someone calling everyday and he doesn't meet your expectations then leave. I threw in the towel on my ex after 4 years and believe me it was worth it. Most guys know to pop the question before now. Besides my husband now is much better than my ex ever was.

Answer 3

Come on, the past 24 hours, the world will not end because of it. Yes, you are jumping the gun. He could be busy, or something could have come up. You can't go through life trying to keep from getting hurt, that is part of life and we should learn from it. Give him a break, and relax and enjoy your relationship.

Answer 4

Jumping the gun. I'd call him or leave him a message or something, that just says you've kinda been missing him. Maybe he's busy. Maybe he's exhausted and just trying to catch some Zzzzs. 24hrs isn't enough to just break up. Stop thinking so much and worrying yourself to death. I'd worry if when you do talk to him, he's acting extrememly different toward you. He should be able to just tell you where he's been or what he's been doing without you even asking... No attacking him on where he's been, and he shouldn't be defensive about it either.

Answer 5

You don't end b/f relationship like that just because he did not called you past 24 hours. This is immature. Maybe he met an accident.....etc. Call him instead. Relationship always based on mutual trust.

Answer 6

If this is the way you intend to live your life thinking that you'd always rather be the one to 'break it off' you are setting yourself up to never have a completely open, trusting, caring, relationship and you'll never get or be able to give the best in any of your relationships.

Answer 7

omgwot a catastophe..sstop getting hyped up im sure arealtionship doesnt mean that u have to be in contact with a person 24 hours a day.Stuff happens maybe some emergency...wait for another day

Answer 8

First ,

Don't assume he doesn't want you anymore.

Also, him not calling for 1 day , is not a big of a deal ~!

You and Him need space sometimes.

Keep in mind, he nor you OWN each other.~!

Now if i was you , i wouldn't call him, let him call.

And without attitude when he call,s let him know,
you was abit worried about him, cause he didn't call,
and take it from there.
~*~*~**~Peace

Answer 9

Just wait for the call. Its nothing to get mad about, maybe he is busy with some work. If you really loves him then pls. do call him and ask him if he's fine before thinking negative about him.

Answer 10

geez let him breathe, 12 hours of day time he was prob a bit too busy, or was waiting for you to contact him, and the other 12 hours he was probably in an unconsious state called 'sleep'..

Answer 11

24 hours?