My high school friends from the neighborhood usually come over to my house after we finish playing manhunt or basketball or whatever and they hang at my house untill there parents want them in. My mom always wears just those extra large t shirts as her pajamas to go to bed in. A couple of times either when shes walking up the stairs or if shes standing higher than where we are her vagina is exposed. My friends have seen it a couple of times and even though they probably find her attractive or somthin it doesnt bother me cause they dont make that big of a deal about it. Is this a big deal? Serious answers please.
2006-07-30 01:18:09 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
she likes getting the attention from your friends duh
2006-07-30 01:21:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not quite normal no.Yes,it is a big deal. It may be a good idea for you to have a few words with your Mum. Perhaps she is not aware that she is exposing her private parts to your friends,lets give her the benefit of the doubt! Explain to her what is happening, suggest maybe she "cover up" a little,maybe put some underwear on? Perhaps make a point of warning your Mum,as and when your friends will be "hanging out at yours" She may feel a little put out,this being the case, try to find somewhere in your house where your friends may not be exposed to this problem,making an awkward situation easier all round.
2006-07-30 08:36:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are serious,speak privately with your mom and say,"Mom I feel really embarrassed when you wear those revealing night shirts when my friends are around" This open ended question will not put her on the defense and will give her time to respond.Psychologists use it all the time.You won't be attacking her just her behavior.She probably is just casual and doesn't have a clue on how she looks.If by chance she continues stop bringing your friends over.
2006-07-30 08:34:08 · answer #3 · answered by Elizabeth 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont know if your moms aware that she giving a free peep show to all your friends and or is she doing it for the attention? If your moms going to be walking around the house when you have company over, she should put some clothes on.
2006-07-30 08:34:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
your mom needs to show more respect in front of your company!!! No this behavior is not normal!!! as a Mom of five ,my home is always crowded with teenagers and I make sure I'm properly dressed !!! maybe sit and talk with your mom and let her know that this behavior bothers you because if your friends see her vagina I know you've seen it too! Your mom needs to be confronted .!if you cant do it ,I will be glad to send her an email! Best wishes
2006-07-30 09:41:30 · answer #5 · answered by cocoa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To answer your question directly, it would not be considered normal in my family or circle of friends. Is it a big deal? That depends on the results of the exposure. Sex with a minor is a crime. And there are other "crmes" involving contact between adults and minors.
2006-07-30 08:34:27 · answer #6 · answered by DelK 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
see ur problem is really serious u cant take it normal wht ever the stuff we may do .but we cant let our own parents to be treated as date by ur friends .ok when ur there in house its not a big prob but think of when ur not there in the house .its really hard to face a situation like u .u just tell ur mother frankly wht ever u feel .if possible try to understand ur mother's charector .all the best
2006-07-30 08:43:26 · answer #7 · answered by anish k 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, your mom needs some help. I'm guessing that there's not a guy around, as you didn't mention anything about one. Your mom seriously needs to get her own life... it's sad when that's what she has to do to maybe feel "sexy" about herself. Talk to her about it and tell her that you have issues with it. Which you DO, obviously, or you wouldn't be on here asking people's opinions.
2006-07-30 08:22:57 · answer #8 · answered by Cherstin and Adam F 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it shud be a serious deal
u either speak to ur mom abt her dressing in front of ur friends
or
stop ur friends from coming to ur home by sum or the other excuse
2006-07-30 08:22:20 · answer #9 · answered by miths 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would talk to your mother and ask her to put something on under her shirt if your friends are around. She should understand that you embarrassed and hopefully she will do some thing about it,
2006-07-30 08:22:21 · answer #10 · answered by gin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, that is not normal.
It sounds like mom needs some longer shirts
2006-07-30 08:23:17 · answer #11 · answered by pike 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋