My GF whenever I had taken her to movie theaters she used to guard herself as if I am going to Molest her, she feels Insecured even though I love her. She thinks that I'll have sex with her and I am trying to force her even though I didnt.
2006-07-30 00:25:17 · 18 answers · asked by MR.BOND 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
the thing is sweetie..she might have had some BAD apples before YOU came along.
if you get bit enough times...you tend to think you will ALWAYS get bitten.
just sit down with her and talk to her. tell her that you are upset she acts like that and ask her to explain why, something else might be going on through her head that you don't even know.
we women are funny like that. we bottle up a lot of things, and then POW, one day it all comes out and you don't know what hit ya.
just be calm and patient with her, and ask her to explain WHY she feels this way.
2006-07-30 00:30:38 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Well, girls have that impression of guys for a good reason. Some of us men have created a very bad reputation for everyone. I was one of those people back in my youth. But what your problem comes down to is the fact that she feels insecure about you. Sure, you do have it harder than most people, but that's ok because you love her and you are willing to do whatever you can to convince her, right?
The key to developing trust and security in her is simple in theory, yet hard in practice. You need to first reevaluate your feelings for her and figure out what you actually want out of the relationship. If you do want to be intimate with her than you need to show her that your sexual urges are low on the list of priorities.
You need to essentially become a man. A desirable man who is absolutely not desperate and all game. Be a gentleman and be popular. Make friends with other women and show her that in a subtle way. Show her that if she can't deliver, someone else would. But in the end, the key is attitude. You need to find a compromise between letting know what you want, and showing her that you don't NEED it from her because you can have it anytime, anywhere, and with anyone. Hope this helps!
2006-07-30 00:38:59 · answer #2 · answered by NeverLoose 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you have to understand that there are a lot of guys out there that actually only want sex. Maybe she had a really bad experience with someone and now it is affecting her in other relationships. I know what if that was the case that you weren't the guy and why should you be blamed? But maybe sit her down and talk to her to see why she feels the way she does? That will show her a lot about you my friend because I do believe you really care for her.....so do more than tell her. Show her.....you will be amazed at the results. Good Luck!!
2006-07-30 00:29:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is a human nature that we are always scared of loosing our most precious thing.We think that others are looking at you to snatch the most valuable thing,you have.
Girls are the most beautiful living creatures made by Nature/God.They are gifted by the god with the most precious thing, for which whole world is rolling around.
The circumstances created by the males,in the male dominated society,forces the girls to think on this line. Although, all men are not alike.But how to identify & judge such handful of males out of such a big sea? A million dollar question for the girls. Therefore,they start with NO TRUST, unless they know you well and start trusting you.
2006-07-30 02:06:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because unfortunately, in our society, women are sometimes not
taught to feel assertive and empowered sexually. If they did, they
would be making the passes at you more than they do! It is not
your fault that this phenomenon occurs.
Strong women know that it is okay to be bold with their partners
and they do not fear their own sexuality when it bubbles up.
Her insecurity with you is actually an expression of her insecurity
about her own sexual desires and issues with men. She fears her
own desire more than you, but as many women do, she has
projected her problems onto you. She wants sex with you but
fears her own wishes; try to verbally make her aware of her
desires if you can. Remind her that she need not feel guilty
about wanting to kiss you or "make out" a bit at the movies.
There are some misogynistic males out there who have
attempted to control women's lives and their sexuality thru
the generations, but thankfully, many women are breaking
these multigenerational chains in favor of a more empowered
approach. The misogynistic men need to be educated and
counselled about their bad habits.
Ihope this is helpful, please feel free to email me at lisashetler@yahoo.com
Sincerely,
Lisa in Los Angeles
2006-07-30 00:44:04 · answer #5 · answered by Lisa Shetler 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it really is what all of a adult males compliments recommend: notably/lovable= He thinks that you've an eye-catching face. staggering= He thinks you're clothing intensify your acceptance. warm= He thinks your body (boobs, curves, butt) is amazingly eye-catching. eye-catching= He likes you for each thing that you're, which includes personality. So, he thinks your body is warm, which sure, skill he needs sex. It skill virtually no longer something if a guy calls a lady warm or vice versa.
2016-11-26 23:29:35 · answer #6 · answered by vaux 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably because most guys only want them for sex. I think you want sex, too, but you're in denial. If you want sex, find a girl who wants sex too, and leave the ones who don't alone.
2006-07-30 00:27:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe she had a bad experience. Try to find out why she is so guarded
2006-07-30 00:28:53 · answer #8 · answered by gentlesoul_63 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do girls think we want them only for sex? Well, because we do!
2006-07-30 00:32:07 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her if she was ever raped or molested some people have a hard time trusting men because of abuse
2006-07-30 00:27:27 · answer #10 · answered by ttbird117 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋