some bloke told me to cover my belly the other day, only three months and not been able to get maternity clothes yet
2006-07-30 00:24:59 · 46 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
oh and just so you all know i told him to go f**k himself with a ripe one!!
2006-07-30 00:38:09 · update #1
I think pregnant women are beautiful, tummy, too... There are some people who still think pregnancy is something to be embarassed by, because sex is wrong, so pregnancy is wrong, and if people see a woman pregnant, they'll go "sin" as well, and we'll all turn into perverts... blah blah.... if you want to show your PG tummy, I say you go ahead... Pregnant women always make me smile because I think of when my wife was preggers with my little girl... so you go right on doing as you choose (I wouldn't do anything crude, but tummy is tummy) and make someone smile who thinks it's beautiful like I do. forget that bloke I say... lol best to you and the wee one.
2006-07-30 00:32:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 0⤋
three months you're barley showing anyway!!! glad you had the re-action you did! you go girl! do what feels comfortable for you and bugger everyone else.
to your question...
i would guess that it would depend on how much extra weight you are carrying both pre-pregnancy and how much you gain.
for instance if someone is already of a larger size already and has a high weight gain then i think most men wouldn't be very attracted.
however, in the general sense where a lady doesn't gain too much weight and develops an actual 'baby bump' then the average male would find them attractive.
personally i have only really started to 'show' in the last 2 weeks, just hitting 6 months and have found men are much nicer to me - strangers holding doors open, picking things up for me etc!!! my current weight gain is 5kg, and has only really gathered around my tummy! so i think it would vary on individual.
2006-07-30 02:32:02 · answer #2 · answered by btw 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
3 months?what,and you have a bump already?it cant be that big,how did he even know you were pregnant at 3 months??pregnant bumps are nice to look at-for some people,but when you get bigger,i would cover it up,cause it don't look right when women have a short top on with a big belly hanging out,not comfortable either.
2006-07-30 05:36:44 · answer #3 · answered by ibiza_shandy_pink 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have had 3 children and would not dream of showing my stomache my stomach was massive and my belly button stuck out stretchmarks veins pregnant women look horrible, dont get me wrong the act is beautiful artistic etc. but its like saying childbirth is pretty!!! its violent noisy messy etc.
having said all that men should not ever offend a pregnant lady as they are extra sensitive at that time i was so angry when i was pregnant if someone would offend me i would be giving birth in prison, my husband had to go and live somewhere else, lol.
wish you and baby well.
2006-07-30 03:50:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all depends on what era you grew up in. When I was growing up you hardly ever saw a pregnant woman revealing her bump, and if you did see a woman revealing her bump she was considered not lady like.
It's just how times change.
These days revealing your bump is commonplace.
Personally I am not a big fan of it, but I wouldn't have a go at a pregnant woman because I don't like it. Each to their own.
2006-07-30 00:58:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No-- I think its quite the opposite actually, Men find women highly attractive with that growing person inside them- they find it marvellous and always comment on how radiant they look.. Almost sexy I guess. My hubby found it quite a turn on when i was pregnant but then on a more personal level he would.
I would say that 80% of the male population would agree
2006-07-30 00:29:28 · answer #6 · answered by Scatty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Two words... Kick balls...
The guy was a jerk... probably a relgious freak...
Guys ain't attracted to a pregnant lady (unless hubby or boyfriend simply as er... the room is accomadated dont bother so to speak...
ie girls stripping off = available pregnant bump = too late mate...
Likewise guys not wanting to hear you are on time of month
Hence guys liking slim ladies with perky boobs the most...
But for a guy to say that... cover up he was a total &*%)*&%%%&*%
2006-07-31 11:22:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
what the hell is a bloke yo? no i think its a beautiful thing to see a woman with child tell Mr bloke to get bent and to mind his own business people sound rude where your at that s**t wouldn't fly down here in Texas
2006-07-30 00:32:11 · answer #8 · answered by james j 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't worry about him. The new style with all these stars is to show off the belly. I didn't when I was pregnant but heck if you are comfortable with it do it. Be proud to be having that little miracle. Don't let one idiot ruin it for you.
2006-07-30 03:26:07 · answer #9 · answered by SiberianHusky_8 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not convinced the "bump" had anything to do with his comment, it's possible he just thought your belly was too fat! Three months doesn't usually constitute much of a bump to make it clear you WERE pregnant. :-)
2006-07-30 01:19:29 · answer #10 · answered by Dick s 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋