reactions i will get from fellow class mates. i have always been not too pretty, and very very big. i have always stood out and got made fun of all the time. now i will go to highschool for my senior year, and am afraid of what they will think of me, say to me, and what they will do to me.. i really need help with this...
2006-07-30 00:23:49 · 24 answers · asked by i_am_kuku7 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
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2006-07-30 00:25:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, they most likely will tease you.. if you just got glasses or braces or a hair cut over the summer, they too would comment on that, because anything 'different' about you, will give rise to this.
I think the best way to deal with this, would be to talk about it, tell them about it, why you did it, how you did it, and most of all that you don't expect or ask them to understand, but accept you that way.
Remember, you'll come out of this stronger.
And you can not do this, without the help of your teachers. And they have to be extra watchful that no teasing happens and that you have an opportunity to explain yourself because gossip takes over. Your class mates will not understand, and be quick to disapprove. So maybe you can say "if you have questions, come to me later and I'd be happy to answer them".
I think you should contact your teachers before you go back and tell them about this.. they not only will be able to help you better with advice, but they actually have a responsibility not to allow teasing and maintaining order.
2006-07-30 00:30:08 · answer #2 · answered by reageer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i in my view understand the place you're i in basic terms converted those days. i havent all started donning the hijab yet as anybody desires time to agjust!! the finished thing approximately donning the hijab is it definitely grants freedom i attempted it sooner or later and it fely sturdy yet i cant placed on it each and all the time as my interest wont enable me so as i mentioned i want too ajgust whilst donning the hijab your outer appearence is insignificant you the genuine you count.. interior your heart adult adult males and ladies folk are equivalent IN ISLAM MY HUSBAND IS SO worrying. my familly have shrink ties yet identity extremely appreciate my writer and shop on with the genuine faith with the aid of fact the subsequent existence is eternal and this existence is going so quickly!! you need to hear dr zakir in you tube if u have any doubts he's conscious each and all the quaran and bible and is an quite clever muslim guy desire this helps... and dont be afraid allah will handbook u ...:):)
2016-10-08 11:57:55 · answer #3 · answered by milak 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you are so young, this sounds like maybe this was your parents decison and you are just part of it?
Anyhow, since you may have been teased before, which happens alot in high schools, because kids are young and still stupid, I would just have a talk with the school counselor there and discuss any concerns you have. That way, if there is a problem, you have someone in the office who can stick up for you.
2006-07-30 00:51:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never think what others say or think about you... new ideas or things are always criticised but if kept it boldly, everyone accepts itslowly and steadily ....remember one thing in life never appear weak in front of anyone be bold strong confident look into the eyes of the person in front of you and no one has the courage to make fun of yours......in personal or professional life....
Looks doesnt matter much what matters is you....bring yourself out of the dark dungeon girl! and only you can do it if need any help write to me at reems_g@yahoo.com
I'Il always be there to help you.
2006-07-30 00:31:30 · answer #5 · answered by reems g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi I'm Garry a brother in islam too sister..
I'm going to go beyond help you here.
You need to know facts and this is what I'm going to give you.
Converting means understanding that Islam is the truth and as you pray more you will see more signs from god to support you in your life.
The more people make fun of you at school = the more white points you get in gods book of your life..
the more you can take it and the more positive you are about your belief the more white points you get.
I envy you because your path is full of white points that god towards you and have in the after life sister, though your path is as hard as you make it or feel it is.,.. it all comes back to how much you believe in god and islam.
keep praying and when you finish sit on your little carpet and as him to make you closer to him and to make you believe more in him as he is always happy to do this.. that's my personal experience.
To be honest with you I'd rather talk to you over chat to support you and answer all your questions.. muslims are for muslims and I am more than happy to support you all the way.. I have the experience and I promise you my only intention is to support you and help you since I clearly see where you are coming from since I live in Australia..
My Name is Gharrieb in Arabic but friends call me Garry..
Add me to your yahoo messenger
it's garysoliman@yahoo.com.au or correspond via email.. it is my duty as a muslim to support and give you the know how of keeping your head up as you wear the Hijab..
Don't be shy to message me.. I will message you in 30 minutes time guessing you are shy to messge me..
I simply want to support and give you the knowledge you need as a friend and no more than a friend and my god be my witness as I have a clear and white soul!
Kindly,
Garry
2006-07-30 00:45:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Assalam Alykom
CONGRATULATIONS SISTER!!
God really loves you!
Anyway. Kids make fun of people who are seemingly "different" to them. whether they wore Hijab or not. It's YOUR choice, and none of any body's business. It's big test for your REAL friends, friends who will never lose your friendship because you converted to a different religion. I myself have Christian friends, and we're friends regardless of our religion. Remember, your real friends will be beside you, and God, Who guided you to His true religion will be beside you, if you have God on your side, never fear anyone, or anything. He'll absolutely send people who will support your choice.
Welcome to the religion of truth sister, and good luck!
And please, no matter what, let Islam enter your heart more, and you'll, enshalla, find answers to all what you need, and you'll gain friends. May Allah bless you and help you with your life. If you need anything, any question, I'm your brother in Islam, here's my e-mail: qrimawi@yahoo.com
2006-07-30 00:32:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First and foremost I want to tell u Mubarak (congratulations) to come into the islamic fold. Believe me you will find peace and serenity in this. Your status with allah has increased. You are a muslim by choice whereas we are muslims by chance. If you truly have changed with you whole heart then i dont think you should think about these things as what will people think about you or their reactions. you should be true to yourself in your faith towards allah. he will give you the strength. And beauty is only skin deep. dont worry not every one in the world is beautiful. once you start wearing your hajab with faith then you will reflect Noor (light) cos allah gives it. If you are really scared of these people around you then before you meet them read Aayate kareema. LA ILAHA ILLA ANTA SUBHAANAKA INNI KUNTU MINAZ ZAALEMEEN. 3 Times and blow slowly on them without their knowledge. Have faith. will pray for you. dont worr. every things going to b fine. if it happens then mail me. i will be the happiest person. we can become email pals.
2006-07-30 00:38:14 · answer #8 · answered by sam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this is what you believe in, stick to it. Don't let other people change your mind. If they make fun of you, walk away. Ignore them, and they will soon stop. Don't let it get to you or they will continue.
Remember, you are more mature than them. You found a path in life while they are still children playing with childish games. Forgive them for it, and be what you believe.
Good luck.
2006-07-30 00:27:38 · answer #9 · answered by brand_new_monkey 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will find a list of people who will tell you nice & encouraging words & telling you if you have done what is right then you have to be courageous etc... But I wish I could tell you more:- Why did you convert? Whom are you seeking? Make sure He is really there! I wish you could read in http://www.christiananswers.net/menu-ar1.html#islam.
Be courageous & have trust in yourself & in The One who loves you & is waiting for you
2006-07-30 00:29:37 · answer #10 · answered by Theresa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋