How Can I Open Up To A Guy I Like...But The Thing Is Im REALLY Shy And He Wants Me To Open Up To HiM.
2006-07-30 00:22:17 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
get involved in activities with HIM. sharing activities and interests naturally leads to conversation.GOODLUCK!
2006-07-30 00:31:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Work out what you are going to say to him. Are you going to talk about anything? Are you going to ask him anything? Work out what his interests are if you can. He will appreciate you taking an interest in him and making the effort.
When you have done this, practice first. You can practice speaking to him with a friend you trust - if you can do this with a guy then even better. Maybe even your teddy bear or your gold fish, doesn't matter. Just practice a couple of times first. Then you will feel more comfortable when you do go and talk to him because you have a rough idea of what you are going to say. It will give you confidence.
Then go for it. I know what it's like to be shy, but most of your worries are imagination. Opening up to him will probably be a lot easier than you expect. You never know, he may well do more of the talking and make it easier for you. Just be genuine, and be yourself.
He might also like you because he thinks you are a 'loveable shy girl' and wants to get to know you better.
Good luck x
2006-07-30 02:02:22 · answer #2 · answered by The Global Geezer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Instead of taking a serious stand on opening up directly, turn it into a type of game. Play something like confession-question, where each of you get to ask a question, no boundaries, and while you DO NOT HAVE to answer, you DO have to answer with complete honesty IF you do choose to answer. It gives both of you a chance to both open up, and get to know each other alot better, but with it being on equal terms... while making it fun at the same time.... have fun, and think of some good questions... hehehe
2006-07-30 02:27:58 · answer #3 · answered by 1question-1answer 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hmm.. Seriously can you clarify on what you mean by "open up to a guy"..? Whatever it means, don't let him force you to something you are not comfortable with. If he is persistent on being forceful, then he isn't a guy who would be staying long. Probably after a while, you would be treated like a floor rug, stepped on and walked over. Take care and God bless ^_^
2006-07-30 00:50:00 · answer #4 · answered by I'm Complicated 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it might sound like tail chasing - but the ONLY way to open up to another is too open up to them
there is risk and as far as i can tell - there is no way to reduce that risk unless you do not open up!
then you have a life that never got used when you die!
are you willing to risk? whatever you fear might happen, if you opened up ... could actually happen ? are you willing to risk that?
good luck - i hope he honors the risk you took. ( so called "shy people" are beautiful and powerful and so endearing! )
2006-07-30 01:56:08 · answer #5 · answered by zigzagidiot 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
show a little interest in him and he'll open up himself like a hot knofe on butter and then u can express ur feelings as well.
2006-07-30 00:25:30 · answer #6 · answered by chooseme_only 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lay down on the bed and remove your panties, spread your legs and u will be quite opened up
2006-07-30 00:30:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Bend over and spread your but cheeks apart, then take pictures and email them to us.
Thanks,
Now youve opened up :)
2006-07-30 00:33:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It takes time. just don't rush it. it will happen no matter how long it takes. If he is serious about you he will honor your pace. And don't compromise yourself just to please someone else.
2006-07-30 00:32:20 · answer #9 · answered by D baby 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well just be urself baby...thats all dont pretend to be something ur not.
2006-07-30 00:25:05 · answer #10 · answered by jerry v 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋