i ve got 4 kids aged 8 to 4.me n my husband has got no money to support all 4. i hv got an aunt that adores my son n is willing to take care of my kid.my question is, is it all right if i give my son to my aunt n in return she will give me some money i mean plenty of money so that both of us can start back.are we bad parents? my son regards my aunt like his second mother n she love him too.so im seriously thinking of giving my aut my son so that he can hv a etter life.what do u think??
2006-07-30 00:12:36 · 7 answers · asked by rozy al bakish 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
If your aunt wants to help out financially help out, but not for the purchase of a child! A loving aunt would not buy your son. What happens to children while growing up can effect their whole future. It will effect you too.
He is apart of your life.
Perhaps there is an alternative, where a church or organization can help your family.
2006-07-30 00:32:02 · answer #1 · answered by G♥♥G♥♥ღ 4 · 25⤊ 6⤋
If you cannot care for your own kids, It would be better to have a family member take care of your child rather than a foster family. As far as taking money from your aunt, only you and your husband can answer that.
Both you and your husband should try looking for a job and start taking care of the rest of your family and yourselves. When you get back on yur feet, then you can bring your son home.
2006-07-30 00:20:10 · answer #2 · answered by lono_68 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Times are tough but why would you just give one child away? Is money more important then your son?And to get plenty of many so that both of you can start back, and where would that be, im sure right back where you started from. Three words: GET A JOB!!!!!
2006-07-30 00:28:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That may be all fine and good, and I commend your aunt for wanting to help you out. But it almost sounds like you are selling your son. People should not have children if they are unable to care for them properly.
2006-07-30 00:17:30 · answer #4 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats a real tuff situation.....dont you think that will affect your family and your other children.... after all its just money that your going to get....it aint gonna grow.... but your boy will..... and it might have negative effect on your other kids thought they are of small age.....it can be possible that they have this thought that their mom will sell them (no offences).... if your kid likes your aunt you can make him stay there....atleast he will be away from your problems for a while....
2006-07-30 00:20:22 · answer #5 · answered by matrixguy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u will regret it i promise, and you will have to answer him later in life and do you want to tell him you want money more then him? go get help from the state, go to church and they can help you too, but dont give up on yourself or your kids, they need YOU
2006-07-30 00:18:46 · answer #6 · answered by kims71572 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey loser, first of all, sell your computer. then cancel your internet access. next, keep your legs closed and quit having sex because you cant afford anymore. then get a damn job.
2006-07-30 00:16:56 · answer #7 · answered by spyderman1212 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋