My boyfriend loves female bodies and check out every female walks on the street ?

Question

note that sex is planned to be only after marriage as per his request.
his eyes are driving me crazy, his eyes go for every passing woman, checks every tiny detail in each female regardless young, old, beautiful,ugly .. his friends also always share pics for nacked women thru emails... is this normal for all guys ? I told him tht this driving me out of my mind out jealousy, can he stop this manner or is it a gene is his DNA./ i even did as he does and watched guys around us to make him jealous and it worked out but he argued with me that it looks like i'm not loyal to him. i don't know wut to do.

Answer 1

Girl,
I am sure you are as green as any girl would be and he is just as normal as any guy would be. You should be happy that he is not playacting with you because if ever a guy tells you he does not find any other female attractive besides you" he is an outmost liar and trying to please you.

At the same time, the beauty of a husband wife relation is that the husband realises that inspite of all the attractions ...he can confide everything to his wife ..like a child does to the mother...and feel secure about his sexuality...feel cared about. Dont panic because he is perfectly normal and at ease in your relationship. your own reaction is also normal as long you dont take any drastic step. you will learn to live with it although the jeaousy will never go.

Try to look it biologically...your boy friend is communicating to you that there are other females who can bear his genetic material...and you are telling him "come to me...i can do it as well"

The reason why he says "you are not being loyal" is because of a generic fear of males. Allthough we humans have socialised we still retains some traces of the fear. This is because a male is never able to ascertain the presence of his genes in the offspring like a woman does when she gives birth (she can only give birth to babies which have half of her genes) The male therefore tries to remove the uncertainity by trying to protect the female with whom he mates (from other males). You will have fun reading the souces i have provided but believe me its true. http://www.yale.edu/opa/ybc/v25.n21.news.06.html

Answer 2

Your boyfriend sounds very selfish. If he has to oogle every female he sees then he doesn't respect you that much if your standing next to him at the time. All men (and woman) look at the opposite sex and that is perfectly normal, looking is harmless but doing it all the time at everyone is a bit pervy don't you think? Can you imagine what it would be like when you are married? My best advice is for you to find a guy who has eyes for you only and not every bit of skirt that comes his way.

Answer 3

That is in the DNA of every men, but some of them can and the others can't resist it. You can't change that. But, try not to look to that like he wants to cheat you. He is with you, and that tells you that he has chosen you to be his gf, not some other girl with a nice butt or something else. You'll have to try this not to bother you that much. Although it is hard, try it.
Or on the other hand dump him, if that bothers you that much. But you won't get anything with that. You'll just lose him, and then your next bf will do the same.

Answer 4

Well i do not know for sure, i do not know your boyfriend,
but his testoserone sounds like it is very overworked,

Iknow that my first husband was always looking at females in front of me, and of course without me around, he would comment abaout the playboy babes on t.v. on commercials he commented, if we were out with his friend and a date he would comment on the other girls, and this was always, and it was degrading,and it led to worse things,

If your husband or boyfriend can not be excited about you, and you should be enough,, then you may have to face the fact that that is how it will be,, and that is not good

good luck

Answer 5

It is normal to want to look at some exceptional ones, but I think he is being rude, disrespectful to you, and downright smarmy if he "undresses" them with his eyes. My ex-wife (not my ex-wife for this reason BTW) used to hate it if I did that, but I only looked a short time and only at exceptional ones. My wife herself was a knockout, but like all women..and yes, I mean ALL..was insecure, but way too insecure; however, she was also very young..we married when she was 17. Today's women are not only insecure, but lots of them are downright stupid because they think they just HAVE TO be noticed, so they get piercingts and tattoos that would scare off most men I know.

Answer 6

i think first impressions are significant. in this sense, sure, I decide a guy with the aid of the way he dresses. in the previous i exchange into married, if I observed a guy that gave the impact of a slob, i did no longer look lower back. does not ought to be dressmaker clothing. in basic terms neat and sparkling. additionally seek for a sturdy haircut and nicely saved fingernails.

Answer 7

Well go to the bedroom (the bedroom is a calm place ) and tell him how this makes you feel and how you have tried to resolve this problem. Yes guys do tend to look at other females so to stop this try spending time private with him. hope i helped :)

Answer 8

Well I think this normal to most men... I just hope they can just be ethical about it. He is jealous when you do the same thing to men because he is doing that to women. You get the drift? So if that's the case... he is thinking worse when he looks at women.

Answer 9

I don't think MOST women can answer this question...here it is from an intelligent mans perspective...This is a male trait that goes way back...he thinks it makes him look more like a man to his peers. i think it's degrading to women. he is most likely to become a womaniser if not already. if a man has respect for women...he will learn not to do this.

he probably learnt this from his dad or his male peers, wants to fit in, its called lemming hood or the lemming effect. do a search on lemmings if you don't understand.

Answer 10

He will stop doing this only when he dies. I advise you to consummate your relationship now. The chances are that he is already having intimate relations with other women behind your back. I say: Do him or lose him.