2006-07-29 23:54:45 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes he does! I was 37 going out with a 22 yr old lady. the younger women appreciate the traits some older men have.
We listen to what they have to say.
We respect their point of view.
We admire their beauty without ogling too much.
We don't look upon them as sex objects.
We know the importance of pleasing THEM sexually, not just ourselves. and of course when we please them it's not just a little "oh wow" orgasm. It's a big "jackpot slot-machine" orgasm.
We have jobs.
We don't borrow money from them.
We take them to nice places (and actually pay their way too!)
We can admit when we're wrong. And can/do apologize for it.
In a nutshell, They can appreciate you for the kind, respectful, loving man you have grown to be. At least that's what she told me :)
Then off to college she went.
now for you younger guys reading this: I'm not dissin' you, I'm just speaking of my own experience. Because when I was in my twenties, All I cared about was spinning wax at a warehouse party (rave) or having shiny wheels on my ride. If I had to decide between taking my girl somewhere nice or buying something for my car or DJ rig, She was @$$ out. and if she didn't like it, she could go curbside. But now I'm "older guy" and I realize the errors of my youth. So learn what you can fellas.
2006-07-30 01:07:15 · answer #1 · answered by Wrong Answer 3 · 22⤊ 4⤋
If you are both able to connect then yes. I met my husband when I was 21 and he was 42. He doesn't look his age and we connected on a very deep level before I knew what age he was. We have been together now for six years and married for two and we are very happy! Best of luck
xx
2006-07-30 02:49:25 · answer #2 · answered by Honey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously it depends on the individuals, but I had a three year relationship with a 48 yr old man when I was 29, and although he was young at heart, it didn't work out, we had different outlooks of on life because of how and when we were raised as children.
I think it can only work if you genuinely want the same things, its no use if he's thinking of retirement and she's thinking kids and houses. you must be honest with each other from day one.
Good luck.
2006-07-30 00:07:46 · answer #3 · answered by peewee72 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm 28 and my partner is 40...we've been together for years and have 2 kids.....age has never been an issue(before you ask I come from a stable home..mum and dad married for 30+ years...worship my dad NOT looking for a substitute/father figure!) I love him not his age!!! You have every chance age is ONLY a number!!! GOOD LUCK!!!
2006-07-30 00:09:09 · answer #4 · answered by nina a 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Age is just a number. As long as she's over 18 it's fair game.
2006-07-30 00:56:01 · answer #5 · answered by asian_man_admires_bbw 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am 24,but at 22 i had a fling with someone of 47, it didnt last as i could not cope with the fact i may end up being the carer rather than the lover. it is a difficult one i am afraid
2006-07-30 03:13:23 · answer #6 · answered by JOANNE C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
age is just a number my partner is 15 years older than me and we happy im early 30's he mid 40's
2006-07-30 00:02:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know several younger women who date older men, some of them are married. As long as there is love, anything can happen. Age is but a nuber there daays anyway.
2006-07-29 23:59:50 · answer #8 · answered by pq4u72 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i cant see why not, if you both like each other enough to spend that sort of time with each other then go for it. dont let other people make the decision for you. talk to this person about how you feel and if they feel the same then i wish you all the luck.
2006-07-30 00:31:41 · answer #9 · answered by only1amz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe if hes a nice guy and doesn't look his age! seriously, there are lots of relationships with an even bigger age gap - hope it goes well!
2006-07-29 23:59:29 · answer #10 · answered by snowymountains123 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not if you are both suited go for it man Good Luck Dirky
2006-07-30 04:38:29 · answer #11 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋