My partner has recently asked for space which I have given her. During this time, she remained in contact through email and texting and an odd phone call. Whenever she has anything exciting to say, she always told me first.
She has now agreed to see me again. If she is happy to carry on seeing me, would it be too soon to ask her get married?
2006-07-29 23:54:38 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
its a tough one. Personally i'd recommed you wait before proposing but on the other hand, it will show how committed you are to her. You might scare he away again if she doesn't feel ready to take this step.
Maybe you should sit down and talk things through, why did she want the space in the 1st place? Has she achieved what she wanted to while she had the space? Is she committed to you etc.
Only when you have the answers should you consider asking her to marry you. If she cannot answers these, she's not ready. Marriage is about sharing things and being honest with each other, that includes your faults.
Good luck!
2006-07-30 00:01:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the reason for 'space' if your arguements revolved around the lack of commitment on your side then perhaps yes, a proposal is the answer.
But if the reason for space was that she wasnt sure you were the one, wasnt sure if it was going to work, because of a heart ache or depression then covering up the problem with a big day isnt going to make it go away.
Maybe proving to her in other ways could help. Just be the man she fell inlove with. Remember the best times SHE had with you and try to do similar things.
There was a reason why you got together, there is also a reason why she stayed in contact with you - fight for her.
2006-07-30 01:38:23 · answer #2 · answered by Wicked Top. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would wait a while. If she is just coming around to being back in the relationship full time with you then you may scare her off by popping the question. Treat her well and give her some time to reevaluate the relationship. You don't want to be with someone who isnt sure about their feelings for you do you? Honestly...give it some time.
xxxxx
2006-07-30 02:52:31 · answer #3 · answered by Honey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'll go straight to the point. Marriage would be too much of a tie for her, she obviously finds you stifling (sorry). Marriage I would think, would make her feel even more tied, so I don't think you should suggest this. Just take it slowly and give her time, she may love you but not be in-love with you.
2006-07-30 00:12:09 · answer #4 · answered by Curious39 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Generally, when someone says they need their space and want to end a relationship, it means they are seeing someone else. And if they want to come back, it means that the other relationship was not what they thought it would be, so they come back to good ole steady and safe. I would not take her back under any circumstances. I have been on the receiving end of this type of situation myself and yeah it hurts and is disappointing, but life goes on and their are other people out there who would probably love to be with someone like you.
2006-07-30 00:02:13 · answer #5 · answered by luv2tch58 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its never too soon to ask a question like that if you are ment to be together she will say yes if not she will say no and u move on to the next chick no biggie
2006-07-30 00:28:53 · answer #6 · answered by princess_cristee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen pal, big advice. Get yerself sorted. Gerra Harley, kick back and enjoy your youth. Married, behave yerself. Free ya mind. Loads of good ladies waiting on that road. Do it, no i mean DO IT!
2006-07-29 23:58:50 · answer #7 · answered by wiz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is too soon to ask her to marry you. If she felt she needed space she's not ready to marry. I wouldn't play around with her, go find someone who is worthy of you.
2006-07-30 00:01:00 · answer #8 · answered by goodbye 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ITS SOON BUT IT SEEMS LIKE SHE MISSES YOU GIVE A COUPLE OF WEEKS AND SEE HOW THINGS GO AND THEN TAKE IT FROM THERE
2006-07-30 00:01:25 · answer #9 · answered by loca mami 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are right for each other and you can get along then, why not?
2006-07-30 00:03:34 · answer #10 · answered by Joseph L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋