Is Oral the way to go?

Question

do people like doing this was wondering my my gf would want to do it I been thinking about doing it to her but it seems hard to bring up, do alot of people do this is bed?

Answer 1

Yes, if you like it. Many people do it, some more, some less, some don't do it at all. It's all about what you want.

If you want to do it, then a good way to try is the next time you two are where nobody can disturb you and you don't have to worry about anybody calling or something like that. Then if you are kissing or what ever you are doing, you can say to her that you "want to do the thing" you talked about.

Because it's the first time it's a wise thing to say it because there might be some reason why she doesn't want to do it now and it becomes easier for her to say it. Thus she will respect you more. Later when you learn more about your own sexuality and the ways of your girlfriend you don't have to say anything. Then you will just do it depending of the feelings present at the moment.

Oh, and one more tip. Maybe you could really study little bit in advance how female sex organs (or pu$$y or vagina) work. There are numerous books and Internet sources. This would give you more confidence because you would know what is what. And again, more respect from your girl. Of course if and when it's easy for you to talk with your girl about sex then the easiest thing is just to ask what she likes. Trust your woman. and the other women answering this question. I definitely am.

Simple as that. Good luck... remember to be imaginative ;)

Answer 2

When me and my boyfriend start to become intimate he kisses me down my body until he gets there. Try kissing her thighs first and reassure her that she shouldn't worry because you love her.

I ws scared to give my boyfriend oral at first so he turned it into a ame to get rid of nerves. He closed his eyes and I gave it a lick and it progressed from there.

You should talk about it casually first though so you have both see what you want, if you have never seen her down there, then do what I did. I was very nervous with my boyfriend but first he looked at it in the dark with a small light on so you couldn't really see, then he took the duvet away and then the light came on. This happened over a few weeks or days not in the same night though.

I hope that helped you.

Answer 3

practice make perfect. just do it! first time you will feel a bit insecure, but she will def like it

Answer 4

You're too young, obviously.

Answer 5

bad ques again !!!!!!!!!! u can do oral or u can use ur mouth instead of when u don have ----------------->>> tat in between ur legs

Answer 6

just do it

Answer 7

oh yeah!

Answer 8

I do.