I had an affair with a girl for a couple of months and she was fine with me until I expressed my desire towards her, she was fine until then suddenly she said she just wanted to be as good as a friend and nothing more.
She told me that previously she had a boyfriend and they had sex together. I had accepted that as cool as a person can be. Suddenly she turned me down when I proposed her was a rude jesture and I felt that I have been dumped even though I have given my fulfleged love towards her. Please help me???
2006-07-29 23:03:55 · 10 answers · asked by MR.BOND 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
what made u in love wid her wen she had no feelings for u..(i mean love feelings)do u really think tht she loved u or may b u were rong she might hv taken u as a frnd...& u knw buddy frndship is a relation tht last forever ..may b she want u to stay as a gud frnd only..& she must hv gone rude coz she dint xpect ur proposal for her...b her frnd....A boy is can do alll is b a nice frnd thts it...being a frnd of her..watz d problem in it...she will always b thr wid u,,may b she got ngry on proposal point coz she likes(i mean love sum1 else)may b all u thot abt her was rong neway i dont knw her & her nature all d very best & try to b her frnd if she wants tht othrwise evrythin wud go rong
2006-07-29 23:19:01 · answer #1 · answered by ur frnd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear Friend,
It is related with the God Creations and the male dominated society,woman is living in.
Girls have various reasons to say NO to such invitation from boys at different stages.Nature - who has created a girl.Social Responsibilities.Although we are growing now with Equality between man & woman, but woman is still unsafe in the society.Having an affair and then Possible Break Up can bring a "Hell" on a girl but on the other hand,boys can move with a new face,they like with. A social fear for such cases are serious in the society for girls as compared to boys. Nature has blessed the woman with the strength of GIVING.Many a times, she walks out of her affairs for the wish of her parents,other beloved ones.In such cases too,we boys feel that girls are ditching us.Your question is also incorrect.I am sure you will appreciate, that majority of the boys (certainly Not All),if allowed, would like to keep on adding their girl friends and have relations with them.Now, If girls becomes a little liberal then there will not be a difference between Man-Woman Relationship and An Animal-Animal relationship. I hope you understand.
2006-07-30 01:34:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats sad. Just take it reeeeallllly slllllowwwww. I had a situation similar to this i kept rejecting the guy cause i felt the same. Stupid I know. Shell come through
2006-07-29 23:07:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Boy do I hate generalizations. No, not all women are like this and NO that doesnt mean star being an ***!! Geez! It just means you are like EVERYONE else and got rejected. Its normal, move on and learn from this. Have better judgement in who you choose next time.
2006-07-29 23:15:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
thts coz in severe college they are ladies, and not women yet. lol. sorry... nicely, i think of a few human beings equate pawing and warm and heavy each and all of the time as a mirrored image of the guy's emotions for them interior their soul--- neediness, desiring for HER. extremely than merely her physique.. so as that's why. each and every so often they proceed to think of this way each and all of the time even while they have been harm and supposedly learnt abt heartaches. yet in any case, as i suggested, diverse women have diff alternatives, and various temper demands various approaches *wink wink*. yet yeah, tenderness is so attractive, a attractive thank you to chat and convey emotions soul-to-soul.
2016-10-01 06:19:07 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to move on. Learn from your mistakes and remember what you did right. Remember just because you have sex that doesn't mean love. Dogs don't love each other.
2006-07-29 23:07:36 · answer #6 · answered by rastus7742 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because she got what she wanted.
Attention.
Now she can move on and sl.ut herself to some guy who treats her bad.
Thats how they are.
If you get the chance again, treat her like some geek.
If it gets worse, cut off all contact and dont ever talk to her again. Be a man and move to more fertile ground.
Good luck.
2006-07-29 23:07:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Usually after a guy professes his 'love' he turns needy.
Women hate needy guys.
2006-07-29 23:07:17 · answer #8 · answered by Trollhair 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girls have holes to ditch boys in. so play the golf
2006-07-29 23:11:06 · answer #9 · answered by athamprince 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
k one thing..........u moving too fast..........that's y she like that............just relax and don't pull away from her slowly.......don't pick up her call all the time............don't see her everyday...........she playing hard to get..........so play her game
2006-07-29 23:07:19 · answer #10 · answered by lovelalust 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋