2006-07-29 23:01:53 · 18 answers · asked by bobcat 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, the first thing I want to say is...in order to have good sex it takes time, practice and understanding each other's bodies. So, if your not doing all those things you can never expect the sex to improve. Second, one's ability to have great sex can be improved if one understand their partners sexual needs, mind when it is in a sexual mode (whatever thoughts that turn you on), and is able to have open communication ( be able to talk freely about each other's needs without thinking negatively about each other's thoughts). Third, if the rest of the relationship is good, then stay and practice working on how to improve sex, there are so many things you can do, buy books, videos, toys and etc to help improve your sex life. Yet, if it does not work, and since sex is an important part of any loving relationship then, may be one should leave...because in the end if we are not satisfied with something or if something is missing in a relationship, in order to fill in that void one will cheat or go to great extents to find that particular gratification.
2006-07-29 23:14:53 · answer #1 · answered by Strawberry 3 · 11⤊ 1⤋
You need to figure out why the sex isn't great. Have you communicated to your partner about this? Sex is a HUGE aspect in an intimate relationship, without good sex you may be tempted to stray.
You should be comfortable enough with the person you are with to suggest new things that may make sex better, watch those better sex videos or porn (although porn is pretty fake!)
Why don't you both sit down and write a list of things that turn you on, whether sexual or not really. Have fun taking turns reading one of your turn ons out loud. You never know this may lead to something pretty hot!
Oh, and to answer the specific question, yes I would stay. Sex can easily be approved on!!! All it usually takes is some communicating and experimenting!
Good Luck
2006-07-29 23:08:26 · answer #2 · answered by Kristen A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you marry someone and the years go by, and the looks fade, and the sex is gone, don't you still love your spouse? yes you will. a good relationship is about more than sex, it's about having a life long friend to grow old with and share all the good times and the bad as well. if you're not happy with the sex, get some books on better sex or DVDs and work on it together, and maybe one day you'll see, sex is not all that matters. if you're just looking for sex in your life you will never find love. the choice is your's. i'm sure for most people when they are really in love the sex is always good anyway. and for that matter what is bad sex anyway? any lovin is good lovin.
2006-07-29 23:17:01 · answer #3 · answered by Tank Stillton 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sex is an major area of a relationship, yet is really no longer the biggest situation....and for that reason, you need to attend until eventually you're married...you choose to fall in love with someone and go by a lengthy time period of putting out (no longer hooking up) and learning about one yet another by verbal substitute..this may take a 12 months or better. remember that each and each and every guy you've sex with will be putting round on your ideas perpetually. you'll not be loose from them. It makes it very confusing to grant your self to that particular someone. perchance because of this that such countless marriages fail. human beings have thanks to a lot premarital sex. Even one is a situation, yet imagine in case you had diverse companions swimming round on your ideas perpetually. be careful what you show your self too!!! God Bless!
2016-11-26 23:24:42 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I could work on the sex part, so if I had a great relationship otherwise, I'd stay, becuase it's easy to find someone to curl your toes, but not easy at all to find someone you really "connect" with and get along well with. I wouldn't throw that away.
2006-07-29 23:07:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say STAY. Sex is workable with open communication or more showy physical communication. But a happy relationship in other aspects is rare.
2006-07-29 23:07:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
things will not be same as now.human change mind always.you don't worry about sex.some how it will go on your way,if you try to be nice and faithful always.u can have sex with any person...its easy to do.but,to build a good and sound life with some one is quite unusual.so,better to stay with your happy life and hope for a cool sex relation also.my best wishes with u!
2006-07-29 23:14:26 · answer #7 · answered by Farjo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay youre happy and you can always work on the sex
2006-07-29 23:04:14 · answer #8 · answered by prizzma 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on how important sex is to you.Personally, I'm very physically affectionate so I'd probably leave.
2006-07-29 23:06:37 · answer #9 · answered by Troy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes I would..because sex is not all that a good relationship is about....it comes later..at least for me it does...I love my Geno
2006-07-29 23:05:05 · answer #10 · answered by celine8388 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋