i like him i want him....hw do i tell him hw much i lov him....
2006-07-29 22:24:44 · 6 answers · asked by raks 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sometimes it's hard for girls to get the guy without seeming blatantly obvious, but there is hope! Luckily the human male is basic and easy to use...though not easy to understand! By the time you have completed these steps, you will have your man eating out of your hand.
Steps
Make eye contact. Although the common belief is that staring is creepy, eye contact is important, especially when you consider that the eyes are the windows to the soul!
Be friendly. If you act more friendly than flirty at first, you can get to know the guy and his interests a little before you move to the next level!
Get flirty. You don't want to be obvious but enough that the guy will know it's not just friendly. Little things like holding a glance a teeny bit longer or touching their arm are good starts.
Be available. Make sure the guy knows you don't have firm plans for a weekend or weeknight. This will make him less nervous to ask you on a date. But beware...you don't want him to think that you have no friends. When he asks you what you're doing on the weekend, say something like "Well Susan (or whoever... but a
girl for sure) and I were thinking about catching a movie but I think she might be working/busy."
Be interesting. Don't divulge your life story but don't be plain Jane either. Guys like to remember things you say so give him something worth remembering!
Treat him with respect and you will catch his attention.
Dress to impress. Dress in something that will draw his eyes, or get him to like your style. Don't try to show all your skin. Mystery is more likely to get a guy to want to keep getting to know you.
Most importantly, dress in clothing that suits your body type. Not everyone is meant for baby tees and short shorts.
If he's talking about a movie/book/idea say "I've seen/read/heard of that one" and discuss it, or if you haven't seen/read/heard of it, ask him to tell you about it... this works especially well if they seem really excited about the movie/book/idea.
Don't be too shy, that only makes them shy. However, being a little shy might seem cute to them. It really depends on the guy.
Laugh and they will laugh. In other words, don't force things to happen, don't be afraid to let things happen.
Remember that silence can be a moment for both of you to reflect on how you guys are getting along. A lot is said during a moment of silence, and trying to avoid it completely is just a sign of immaturity.
Keep track of how you are both feeling. Does it seem like he has someplace he needs to be? Do you have another obligation that will cut your conversation/date short? Giving each other the opportunity to leave without hurting the other's feelings is important. You don't want to make them feel like they have to be there.
Act like you're interested, smile, nod, ask and answer questions.
Be an engaging conversationalist. If you can't be interested in what you're talking about, you don't want to be with this guy anyway.
Remember to keep clean.
Ask this person if they may be interested in going out to dinner with you sometime, or on a walk, or to study together, or see a movie together.
Tips
Don't mention that your favorite hobbies are shopping, going to the salon or whatever because you don't want to be considered high maintenance, and guys don't really "get" the addiction to shopping that women have.
It's okay to say what you think. It's your opinion and if you start dating, you'll need to be yourself anyway so don't be someone you're not while trying to get the guy. It would be better to date someone else if he doesn't like you for you.
Go ahead and talk about a variety of subjects. Don't be afraid to let the conversation move naturally. Do you really want to be with someone you can't talk to?
Find out what he likes in a girl. You can do this by seeing who he flirts with or talking to his friends. You can also have one of your friends do the "dirty work" for you. Just be subtle about it! When you do find out things, don't go changing yourself completely so that he'll become interested. Just see what you can do.
Smelling nice is always good. You can put on perfume, but not too strong or he won't like it. The freshly showered smell is always good.
Go easy on the make-up. It is not hot if you cannot see any of the actual skin on your face. Wearing too much make-up only makes you look fake, like some sort of doll.
Be nice to his friends. Not many people think this is a big thing, but if his friends think you are okay, he will think you are cool because you can have a laugh with a group of boys instead of always giggling with your girls!
Some say that many men find the color blue on a woman attractive. Make sure that the blouse is form fitting but not showing your midriff. You could also try a cute floaty skirt just above the knee. You do not want to go much higher than that because you do not want to look as if you are trying to dress younger. However, if you are not a skirt girl, try a nice flattering pair of jeans.
Wear your hair down - it attracts guys more because you look like you don't care what people think (you just want to sit back,relax and let your hair flow in the wind).
Wear a glossy lip coat as it directs more attention to your mouth, and that may remind them of kissing!
Make the first move. Don't be shy! Make sure he knows your name before you start talking to him!
Wear clothes that will make you stand out amongst the crowd, but don't look so weird that he'll feel uncomfortable around you.
If there is competition, become friends with her! If you can't join the enemy, plot evil tricks against her. (Reference the film "Mean Girls" for ideas)
Many guys won't talk to you at all if they don't know you and you aren't attractive. Forget those guys because they might say "Hi" to you, but they really don't want to have anything to do with you.
Warnings
Don't give up! Try to win his heart and never forget that you always have a chance with anyone.
Never try to *force* someone to like you against their will. It never ends well.
Don't try and 'talk sexily'. It's just embarrassing when girls put on a husky voice to try and sound sexy. Talk clearly in your normal voice and the guy will appreciate it much more!
Just because you like him, doesn't mean he's a great guy. Get to know him and see if he's right for you.
2006-07-29 22:31:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-08-20 23:28:43 · answer #2 · answered by Erika 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-08-09 05:25:48 · answer #3 · answered by faim 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If You are afraid to say the words to his face...write him a letter. Or get a friend to tell him.
2006-07-29 22:29:39 · answer #4 · answered by Tank Stillton 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Buy him a Porsche.
2006-07-29 22:37:38 · answer #5 · answered by klunk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you find out tell my girl ok
2006-07-29 22:27:48 · answer #6 · answered by smiley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋