He said that they're just friends, but i just have a bad feeling about the whole situation. She's 17 and he's 20 but still i just don't like the fact that she's sleeping over at his house while i'm not around. Am i just being paranoid or should i be mad at him? Please help!
2006-07-29 21:50:18 · 28 answers · asked by justme87 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I have to agree with what others say. Do you trust him? If she was really drunk he did the right thing by having her stay. Now if anything hapopens after that I say time for a new B/f.
BTW... what is a 17 yr old drinking like that for anyway? Kids nowadays are nuts.
2006-07-29 22:25:32 · answer #1 · answered by reallyconfuzzled1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let it be. just be glad you have someone who cares about other people and isn't so self centered. You're being too paranoid and jealous. How would you feel if it were the reverse and he was too drunk to drive but a girlfriend didn't let him stay over night so he crashed and died? Sadly I know alot of families who's kids died in car accidents because they were drunk and a few killed a friend or two as well. Think of peoples health first.
2006-07-29 21:55:42 · answer #2 · answered by wildhair 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go with your gut feeling girl. we women have intuition for a reason. I'm not suggesting you should be paranoid and accuse him, but you do need to explain to him that it makes you feel very uncomfortable when she sleeps over and you're not around and that should honestly be a good enough reason for him not to let it happen again (as you feelings should come way over those other girls feelings). also try and get him to see it in the reverse,..say to him how would you like it if another guy stayed over at my place without you here? and tell him you trust him, its just the other girl you dont trust!
2006-07-29 21:55:24 · answer #3 · answered by supagrrrl84 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he loves you, there is nothing to worry about. And I think you should believe him. Yes, you dislike the fact that there is another girl sleeping at his home now. If I were you, I would think the same way. But you better stop because after such thoughts the only one upset is YOU! I believe that your relationship is going very well and the only girl he wants to be with is you. After all, boys don't like drunk girls who can't even stay on their feet ;)))
2006-07-29 22:12:24 · answer #4 · answered by ChillyღAngel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Where was this girls boyfriend at and why didnt he come to pick her up? If the girls boyfriend was there too, than I wouldnt think anything about it. I would go with your gut, but you might have better luck getting the truth out of the girl than your boyfriend, sorry but its true. Oh, and try talking to the girl's boyfriend and see what he thinks about the whole situation. If he is also have bad vibes, than I would just bail on this guy, life is too short and trust me, there are plenty of great guys out there. Good luck
2006-07-29 22:03:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She needs to be responsive to which you have confidence her its going to harm her so which you would be able to think of that she might try this to you! If she tells you and swears that no longer something surpassed off then it did no longer. She's unlikely to cut back to rubble what you have and her little ones life with a drunken chum. it is organic to tension considering you adore her yet attempt to see it from her viewpoint you maximum probably have a girl chum which you're close too yet no longer something might ever ensue its basically like that! wish this facilitates :)
2016-11-03 07:20:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all that is called contributing to the deliquency of a minor, and it is a misdemenor. I would also have a problem with that. He should have found her a ride home. I know you all have friends and you or her boyfriend should have possibly been available too. I just wouldn't do it when I was seeing someone else-Just to avoid stuff like this!
2006-07-29 22:01:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to base it on his character and how he has acted in the past. He may not be able to drive her because he also had a bit too much to drink. Talk to him about it and let him know how you felt. Whatever doubts you have are for a reason and need to be aired out. Hope it works out for you. Good luck.
2006-07-29 22:15:20 · answer #8 · answered by D baby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't trust him. Is there anybody else staying over, or is it just the two of them? Where is her boyfriend? Why is he hanging out with her and drinking when nobody else seems to be around? Even if he didn't actually cheat, that's still kind of creepy and I'm sure you can do better.
2006-07-29 21:58:46 · answer #9 · answered by Kanga_tush2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, are you just an idiot ? You honeslty belief this clown ??? Honey, he is taking care of business right now and your letting it happen. In the morning you need to call him and tell him " hpoe it was worth it" hang up and go on with your life ! yeah he sounds like a true saint too and I have the Brooklyn Bridge to sell you for five dollars !!!!!
2006-07-29 22:15:28 · answer #10 · answered by Baghdad Pete ! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋