we made love for 2 times 4 days ago and i dont want that to happen again cause im afraid to get pregnant so i tell him to wait till we get married but i know it will be hard for him to control his self everytime we're together so i just want to help him without intercourse.What will i do?please help especially to all men out there.If your gf were in my place what do you want her to do?
2006-07-29 21:35:13 · 20 answers · asked by ress 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you can perform oral or anal without the fear of getting pregnant, however , he should respect you enough to wait till the two of you are married if that is what you want.
2006-07-29 21:40:24 · answer #1 · answered by retrac_enyaw03 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first of all you shouldn't have started having sex, but now that you have.....
PLANNED PARENTHOOD.....get on some form of BIRTH CONTROL, remember condoms are not 100% effective...so use condoms and at least one other form of birth control whether it's the pill, a diaphram, the sponge etc.
Also remember that if you do get pregnant, he's gonna be outta there and you are gonna be stuck raising a child ALONE.....
Have you checked to see what kind of jobs are available for high school dropouts in your area?
Have you considered the cost of daycare and where you'll put your child all day while you are at work?
Are you old enough to sign a lease on an apartment (a lease is a legal contract, you have to be 18 to sign) so you and your baby would have some place to live?
Have you checked into the price of diapers and formula and do you know how much groceries will cost for you and a child?
Men care about ONE thing.....sex.. they do not care about you, or what you think or how you feel.....they are interested in what is between your legs not your ears. You deserve better and you have to do what's in YOUR BEST INTEREST and if that means dumping that guy and not having a boyfriend so you can have a future and finish school then so be it.
Remember that the younger you are when you start having sexual intercourse the higher risk you put yourself at for contracting any number of STD's some of which will be silent and will scar your fallopian tubes so badly that you will not be able to have children later in life and THAT will be when you find out you had an STD.
2006-07-30 04:43:51 · answer #2 · answered by Jennifer B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, sounds like he's in heat, actually.
When me and my wife were living together before we got married, we had close to the same problem....one method, is tell him to take a cold shower...it helps....or give him a hobby, reading a book, going for a walk....doing things together, in public places....find a way to keep his mind off sex.
Now, the second thing, is if this is the man or boy you wanna marry, you might also consider moving up the date...we switched ours from Feb 14th, to Oct 13th, just to get a good friday...not kidding. And you better believe everything that could go wrong did...but you know what? It still worked out, we're still happily married, and have been together almost 6 years.
Other method, is giving each other stimulation....sneak a little time in the shower together, explore each other, find out what each other likes, and don't likes....sex doesn't always have to end the same way....but as well, don't let him dictate it all....otherwise, he's looking just for sex.
Good luck, keep us posted!
2006-07-30 04:42:29 · answer #3 · answered by steveraven 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well how old are you? Do you know what youre doing? Did you take precautions so that you would not get pregnant...? If you would do this thing you must use condoms, they make a foam that would also keep you from getting pregnant and if youre old enough then you could go to a doctor and get on the pill...
If youre determined to go forward and not have sex there is oral favors, by taking him in your mouth...there is also a manual fix, by taking him into your hand...
The best thing to do is just not get into that, any of that until youre married then you wont have to worry
2006-07-30 04:45:38 · answer #4 · answered by Walter J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if he doesnt know how to please you outside of the bedroom, then he doesnt deserve a woman period. Go someplace thats fun and that hits both of your likes ( beach, walk in the woods, a boat ride, go skiing). If your worried about getting pregnant, then use protection. Tell him to use the pull out method, hasnt failed me for 13 years now. Dont forget the other ways to turn a guy on, oral, hands and porn is fun too.
2006-07-30 04:40:50 · answer #5 · answered by Baghdad Pete ! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen a man who loves to make love to his woman is great and dont worr if you use condoms you wont get pregnant because there are many woman who are looking 4 men who are freaks be thankful u got one .sorry 4 being so blunt but there are females out there satify the man at home girl cause u dont want any one else to jus being straight p and down to earth girl take the advic eor leave it
2006-07-30 04:43:24 · answer #6 · answered by christina p 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can use birthcontrol y'know or just start giving him a lot of oral sex. I don't think he would mind that! My question to you is did you enjoy the sex? It sounds like you can take it or leave it, and if so he's doing something wrong!
2006-07-30 04:48:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
will he marry you. If yes why you bother or if not then why you bother. Sexual relation is must but that too in a limit. Don't do blo job to satisfy him or preventing him to *** you.. If he love you then he will respect your decisions and if you think that not too much before marriage than stick to it..
2006-08-02 06:31:00 · answer #8 · answered by heart_intelligence 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
feed him. Do anything besides sex; it gets to a point where you do whatever your mind says and it still wont satisfy him.
Play cards with him, or do something nice.. dont think about SEX all the time
2006-07-30 04:51:23 · answer #9 · answered by smithelliott 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a book. I hope you're older than 20.
2006-07-30 04:43:24 · answer #10 · answered by lindakb24 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋