there is another man in my life. we like each other & he is the one i looked for. i got married last night. in this condition should i continue with this new man or cut every thing. he knowes i am married but he kisses me and hold me in his arms. is he honest?
2006-07-29 21:29:19 · 14 answers · asked by scarlet 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Of course not and you just got married so of course you stop seeing him!
2006-07-29 21:32:54 · answer #1 · answered by dappersmom 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, it is not true to divorce for another man. I understand about the other man holding you and kissing you I know how that feel but still that wouldn't be right to the man you just happily married. If the other man was the one you was looking for then why didn't you wait to marry him the one you truly love. I think you should cut out all of that and just don't mess up your marriage well I think you should follow your heart and not mine but I am sure if you divorce that man that love you enough to have married you he would be hurt very very bad. What if your husband had another woman would you want him to divorce you because of her {NO} I wouldn't want my husband to divorce cause some other whore say so. But that's all I'm saying I gave you some advice and examples now it is time for you to do what you got to do.
2006-07-29 21:45:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Both men have been in your life before you got married. You picked one and married him and now your thinking maybe you picked the wrong one! I say have mercy on your husband and get a divorce and stick it out with the other one. Then I'm sure you will also feel that you made a mistake.
It's your personality and you need to take charge of what you think, then what ever guy you are with you will be content. Because now you are sitting on a table in a restaurant and after your order has arrived, you are wondering if there was something better to order and you will always be that way until you learn how to be content.
2006-07-29 21:48:23 · answer #3 · answered by Hattan_0 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, lets see....first of all, you just broke a few laws, by being married already, you need to get one of them annulled.
Do you think it's true love, or just a fling, to find some spice in your life? Are you in it for the sex, or do you know this man well enough, to start a new life with him?
Most importantly, is anyone else going to be hurt, and is your other husband going to be stable enough without you, IE Job, house, any kids, and if you go, what would you do, walk to him, show him divorce papers, and leave?
Things done in haste, tend to be bad news....not thinking things through, can be quite painful later on....simply put...if you could marry another man, just dumping your first....what's to stop him from doing the same thing to you? Deep issues to consider....do a lot of thinking on it...and better be honest with your husband number one....and hope he doesnt' kill husband number two.
2006-07-29 21:38:07 · answer #4 · answered by steveraven 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might as well stick your hand in a blender....you got married, like 12 hours ago...WHY ARE YOU are loving and lusting another man? Where the heck is your husband and how did you get away so soon? You're supposed to be consummating the lifelong committment you just made. Is he HONEST?!?!? So, you're so honest that you value this in another person?! Where's your honesty and loyalty. Something must have been lost in the translation here. You're going to end up breaking a heart or two or three, yours included if you don't wise up.
2006-07-29 22:52:09 · answer #5 · answered by Sleek 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't take the advices from the man above lol, just go for ur feelings, if ur husband make u real happy / happier then the guy does to u then stay married
2006-07-29 21:36:00 · answer #6 · answered by AppleSoda 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your are F****** pathetic, if someone knows that your with someone else and still have the nerve to come on to you, they are not honest he wants to see how far he can get you to go and then hes gonna drop you like he did the last one, and your going to have lost the one you truely love but either way someone should tell him so then maybe both of them can dump your pathetic *** how immature again like said before grow up!
2006-07-29 21:36:05 · answer #7 · answered by ~Bethany~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay married and i think the new guy is the kind who hates to get involved and thats why he found someone who cant do that with, so think very well.
2006-07-29 21:55:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is why homos shouldn't get married. You can't make children! Why get married?
2006-07-29 21:33:01 · answer #9 · answered by Rocco 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should chose the one that makes you happy. But you cant have them both.
2006-07-29 21:33:08 · answer #10 · answered by Luna 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋