i keep catching him checking me out and he comes to my register quite often (i work as a cashier in a local grocery store) i wanted to know if i compliment him and the either slip a note with my number and saying to call me if he is intersted, or just hand him a note with my number with his change, is too forward or would seem stalkerish? i have never made the first move like this before and am unsure about it. so give me your answers. should i do it?
2006-07-29 21:23:05 · 21 answers · asked by whistlergal03 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Chat, smile, be friendly and maybe compliment him... let him know you think hes cute, but do not not NOT give him your number.
If he's interested and available, all you have to do is give him the green light. and he should ask you... if he doesnt, WHY would you date such a wuss?
Trust me, when a guy digs you.. he'll jump through a million hoops. You dont have to do anything but let him know you won't shoot him down.
2006-07-29 21:32:00 · answer #1 · answered by Epiphany 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd start with the compliment. Try to feel him out a little more first. Ask if his girlfriend likes the kind of cereal he gets... something like that. Let's him know you're interested, but gives him an easy out if he doesn't want you or isn't available.
2006-07-29 21:27:48 · answer #2 · answered by Kanga_tush2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take the chance if he is sel confident he wont be
offended it would also show he has compassion and humility but you should speak to him not just
slip him a note (too much like a busieness card that way)
just ask him if he likes you flat out maybe
from there he will take lead you dont win if you do not try to play he may be too shy to break ice with you he may feel he does not stand a chance and keeps admireing from afar let him know he has a chance or loose him anyway
2006-07-29 21:36:07 · answer #3 · answered by oddbs2 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Honestly, and I'm a feminist, I wouldn't. Have you heard of the book 'He's just not that into you"? Men are not scared wimps; when they know what they want, they go after it.
Maybe the time's not right for him, maybe he has a gf- whatever it is, just keep flirting and let him make the first move...men like to chase and get bored by being chased, NO MATTER WHAT THEY SAY. (Read the book!)
2006-07-29 21:31:32 · answer #4 · answered by keengrrl76 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i'm a woman n i'm shy til u get to be responsive to me. i'm going to sit down down in college quiet n no longer confer with every person n wen ppl confer with me i'm getting frightened...... yet whilst ik u n have been friends i'm so plenty extra outgoing .... I basically get frightened around extra moderen human beings n i'm getting scared..... adult adult males continually calls me gorgeous n gorgeous cuz i'm shy, short, have been given a great physique, im sweetheart til u **** me off, stuff like that......
2016-11-03 07:18:17 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just start hanging around him and talking to him about anything and laugh at his corny jokes.
Ask to see what he's up to on a day off ? Ask if he'd wanna grab a cup of coffee sometime ?
2006-07-29 21:36:56 · answer #6 · answered by Baghdad Pete ! 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well you have to be careful about doing that sort of thing at work. You should just say something like in a joking sort of way...something like...you know I seem to have lost my phone number...do you think I could have yours?
Or something clever like that...good luck
2006-07-29 21:27:52 · answer #7 · answered by Walter J 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Most guys are cowards, go ahead and break the ice for him. He probably thinks you're too pretty for him anyway. When he realizes you're interested, he'll open up.
As for how to do it?
Ask him his name to start with. But do it with a smile! When he asks why you're asking him, tell him that you think he's attractive.
YOU WILL INSTANTLY HAVE HIS ATTENTION!
2006-07-29 21:28:59 · answer #8 · answered by c_w_b_21 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
no you should def let him know your interested.... he probably wants to ask you for a date but just to scared of being rejected so make him comfortable and make the first move.... if it doesnt work out well then it just doesnt..
2006-07-29 21:28:11 · answer #9 · answered by millertime06 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think u should make the first move.. maybe he's too shy to :) good luck
2006-07-29 21:27:02 · answer #10 · answered by AppleSoda 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋