i am 15 and i have not had a boyfriend since i was 8 years old and it really gets me down. i think the reason is that ii wear glasses all the time and have the odd few spots. has anyone got any advice to clear up my spots and get a guy???
2006-07-29 21:10:17 · 19 answers · asked by jiving 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
So you have not had a boyfriend for a while. That means you have not had any boy trouble for that time also!. You have not been dumped, ignored, lied to, you have had no reasons to be jealous, worried lonely or miserable or spend nights waiting for phones to ring or text messages answered.
Your glasses are not a problem, not at all, and spots, well show me anyone at any age without any sort of skin blemish somewhere.
You will find someone - indeed several someones and you will be happy. Simply keep yourself clean and tidy and be of pleasant outgoing attitude and they will fall over themselves to get to you. If they don't you wont notice that much as life tends to get hectic enough to make you forget things like that - eventually
2006-07-29 21:22:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 15⤊ 2⤋
You are only 15. Do not worry about boys. Enjoy your life while you are young with your friends. Wearing glasses would not be the reason why you are not getting a boyfriend and nor having a few spots. If you are so uncomfortable about your glasses, why not try contact lenses. Many opticians have trial contact lenses, to see if you can wear them. This might give you a bit more confidence. As for the spots, there are many things on the market for spots. I personally like the Tea Tree and Witch Hazel Spot wand that you get from boots. But you need to find one that is good for your skin. - Good luck
2006-07-29 22:38:26 · answer #2 · answered by Elana N 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about it as for the spots go to a dermatologist they can fix that and if you want you could try contacts. But other than that been there done that I'm engaged now but boyfriends are overrated. Unless you actually want to be with somebody it really is pretty pointless to be in a relationship that you don't really like the person.
2006-07-29 21:16:03 · answer #3 · answered by Sarah S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been married for 28 years and have been wearing glasses for 35 years.Still happy.
About your " odd few spots " I can't help you.
To get a " guy " , well , you can manage by yourself.
2006-07-29 21:34:58 · answer #4 · answered by d260383 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
These things take time. You shouldn't be dating untill around this age anyway.
When you have TEN years of no dating between the ages of twenty and thirty, tell me about it. And I'm now forty, and married four years, but we've been involved for eight.
Exercise, have a healthy diet, drink two litres of water a day, don't clog your skin with make-up, and thank your stars you're not a boy, facing the joys of razor-rash from shaving.
2006-07-29 21:19:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are to young to be worrying about things like that you should be enjoying life with your friends.
If your spots are that bad go to the Doctors they can help but to be honest you shouldn't go focusing on getting a boyfriend they usually come when you least expect it.
2006-07-29 21:17:32 · answer #6 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have a wash,,,,,, na sorry couldn't resist, you have to find some facial washes which are compatible with your skin, and don't worry about getting a boyfriend, you'll get one, there is someone for everyone, i know some really ugly people and they have partners, it may be your stress which is causing your spots, also if your looking for a partner STOP LOOKING it will happen when you least expect it, when your in your scruffiest clothes and your hairs a mess ,,,,,,, O' to be 15 again
2006-07-29 21:16:16 · answer #7 · answered by P-H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wear glasses too I have not had a girlfriend. I have only been whearing glasses since 2000
2006-07-29 21:29:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think glasses make a girl look bad! just make sure your doing every think to prevent spots, getting the right stuff from the shop and using it regularly and properly
2006-07-29 21:15:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have all the time in the world
2006-07-29 21:11:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋