My little sister is acting the same now, (She still 11 years old!) But thanks for all the answers. We told her it's not safe to live with that guy, and she says it's alright. She said "I'm totally ok! That guy is so cool and good! He didn't rape." and then i asked her wat she did with that stranger.
she said that they would watch television together and hug each other randomly. They also got out together and went to the movies and did normal stuff like proper girlfriends and boyfriends would do. And every night she would go to the stranger's house. She would climb out of the window at midnight and go there. (We live in a house in New-York) My mother is wailing much often and dad's screaming his head off. I am going to die! Help me!
2006-07-29 21:03:43 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
put your sister on the cage.
lock her up. it's for her own good.
2006-07-29 21:07:48 · answer #1 · answered by fakemoonlandings 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your sister very calmly that part of being an adult is responsibilty, not just for yourself but for others.
Out of respect and care for your parents, she should reconsider what she is doing. If she says that she needs to do what is best for her, tell her she will have her whole life to spend time with this guy if she wants. It's not worth putting your parents through torture.
Make sure you treat her as if she were an adult. She just wants respect. Don't demand anything of her or yell at her. Try to avoid talking about the guy. Make it about her life and your family. If you start in on the guy, she will get defensive about him.
Also, don't patronize. Don't act as if you know better than her.
Also, give her opportunities. If this guy is a stranger, ask her why she hasn't introduced him to the family like one would do with a normal boyfriend. If she brings him over, put some fear into him!
Hope you get it figured out.
2006-07-30 05:10:59 · answer #2 · answered by retzy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Now let me see if ive got this right, your dads head fell off in New York, and he's screaming about it all the time at the movies, and your mother is wailing at a stranger because he's watching television and hugging himself randomly, and you are jumping out of windows at midnight, because you think you are going to die. (Is that right is it?????????)
2006-07-30 05:07:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your mom and dad are HORRIBLE PARENTS if they do not call the police. How can you let an 11 year old go see an 18 year old? Sneaking out at night? They need to lay down the law before she gets raped by him or someone else.
2006-07-30 04:08:19 · answer #4 · answered by wldntulike_2know 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Doesnt your parents knopw what kind of danger your sister is in? That girl needs to stay away from that guy no matter how cool she thinks he is. I would hate for your sister to get hurt by this perv and your parents got to put a stop to that at once.
2006-07-30 04:16:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i know what she is going through. she is at that age to where she feels like no one can harm her and in reality they will. what you and your parents need to do is either put bars on the windows that she is climbing out of or take her down to the morgue and show her what can happen to her if she keeps up with the actions she is doing.i used to sneak out at that age and got caught by the police and by my parents. well my parents ended up sending me to a girls home and im telling you my whole outlook change real quick. good luck
2006-07-30 04:14:14 · answer #6 · answered by carrie2713 l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should get her to bring the guy over to ask why he wants to be with a young girl and not someone his own age. You and your parents need to stay calm when you do this because you need to get this guy to tell you what you need to know or call the police and report this dude.
2006-07-30 05:14:38 · answer #7 · answered by catmenacestop 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have have a little sister also i cought here on the phone with this guy she was telling him that she was going to give him a b/j so me and my other brother got in the car and went to his house and kicked his a$$ u should do the same
2006-08-03 00:52:20 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no.now u cannot correct her by scolding or beating.show littlebit love to her and tell her the bad effects of it which will affect her future.don't be tensed.be courageous.u r not suppose to accept the defeate.u better join her to any residential school where the rules are strict.this may help u.
2006-07-30 05:06:08 · answer #9 · answered by Ganesh Prasad 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go on Maury Povich
2006-07-30 04:07:38 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm, call the police, get him arrested for child molestation. an 18 and 11 year old, someone needs medical help theer, and its not your sister
2006-07-30 04:20:19 · answer #11 · answered by Me 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋