he annoys me and i want to know a way to deal with him i would think myself but i wanna hear your opinions first thanks .......
2006-07-29 20:37:16 · 9 answers · asked by prestonqueen 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
It's a brother's job to be annoying. It's a sister's job to get them in trouble with your parents. And know that things will get easier the older you get.
2006-07-29 21:03:04 · answer #1 · answered by Kanga_tush2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ohh... I sympathize.. I face the same problem.
ok.. so far techniques Ive tried.. they've all worked at some point of time or the other, but honestly, there's no permanent cure -- its all just 'temporary relief'.. tho of course mine is the most extreme case I know.. so..
ok.. 1st strategy - be good to him, listen, etc.. n when he isnt so nice tell him .. see Im so nice to u.. how do u have the heart to be so irritating?
1) Talk to him - 'the speech' -- set the ground - tell him you want to talk to him, if he has about 10 minutes, and when he's free and relaxed. In all probability, he'll laugh or ask why - tell him its something thats important to you both. Then give him the whole rigmarole about family and how this is really upsetting to you and you want to look up to him as your big bro but you feel really bad when he teases u or whtever n u both have been behaving really badly n u want to be a nice happy family. The emotional speech should get you relief about 2days.
2) Remind him.
3) Do something for him - and next time he irritates you go like 'see.. this is bcoz I do so much for u.. now Im never going to do anything for u coz u just dont appreciate it.'
3) Cry
4) Go n tell mum n dad
5) Have 'the talk' with mum n dad
ok.,... those are the 'nice kid' strategies... now more aggressive....
6) Refuse to do anything for him - even simple things like closing a door on your way out of his room -- unless he quits harassing you --PERMANENTLY!!
7) Reellllyy irritatin - give him a taste of his own medicine - imitate EXACTLY (not the fake way) what he says and does to irritate you. Timed correctly, this gets them reelly confused
8) Go with what I call 'je ne sais quoi' - irritate him at perfectly peaceful times the way he irritates you - and when he complains to your parents -- innnocently say hey-- he did it to me on so n so day so now I thought its my turn. But... if he agrees NEVER to do that again... I wont either.. :-)
9) Ignore him. Pretend he doesnt exist. when he comes to talk to you - pretend your looking thru a wall or something. Say things like 'did u hear something?' to others around you when he's trying to ask u a q. He'll get the msg.
10) Get a life -- get busy and away from where he is as much as possible
11) Get HIM a life - introduce him to your friends - who he'll probably want to date -- and need you for it -- make it seem like their relationship depends on YOU... added to the fact that you introduced them.. .and he's got to be evergrateful..
:-)
2006-07-29 21:15:37 · answer #2 · answered by Jest21 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have an older brother who used to annoy me all the time but now that were grown he still annoys me ( partly because he's always right) but he's also my best friend he has helped me out in so many ways I will owe him till the day I die. If I were you i'd love the annoyance because when it's not there any more you will miss it.
2006-07-29 20:45:10 · answer #3 · answered by funnychic30 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is in a brothers DNA to aggravate his sister. it is also in his DNA to protect you.
just know that he loves you but can't help farting in the car and blaming it on you.
2006-07-29 20:44:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I punch mine in the head every now and again.
2006-07-29 20:42:01 · answer #5 · answered by playdoh1986 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow i have this same problem so i diss him in front of my parents and they laught and he gets embarassed
2006-07-29 20:40:37 · answer #6 · answered by naomayyz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get him a girlfriend,,that should keep him busy
2006-07-29 20:39:55 · answer #7 · answered by easyasalife 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hook him up with one of ur friends!
2006-07-29 20:41:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
damn it someone took my answer
2006-07-29 20:40:16 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋