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We have been dating for one year, though we have known each other a long time (8 years, we are both 24) and I feel like neither of us share what is going on in our internal worlds as much as we used to. I am guilty of this too. Even though we see each other fairly regularly, I am missing him. Sharing what is going on with me seems harder and more intimidating than it used to and I find myself shying away from doing so. I am afraid that we are losing our connection. When we spend time alone together, we have a lot of silences that feel comfortable at the time, during which talking feels forced, and afterwards, when the date is about to end, I have this sense of panic, like I want to pull him towards me, into the kind of interaction I want.

2006-07-29 20:21:45 · 9 answers · asked by Jess 2 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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You have to bite the bullet and tell him what you just said. Make a night of actually talking. Write it in a letter to give him if you just can't face saying it. But you have to handle it now or it will just keep getting worse.

2006-07-29 20:24:14 · answer #1 · answered by Kanga_tush2 6 · 0 0

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2016-05-18 22:24:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

You both are too young to be involved so seriously...you both need to experience other relationships as when you get older you will regret that you did not. If after you both had other relationships and still want to be with each other then great. You can't force someone to be closer to you, but being apart seems to do the trick.

2006-07-29 20:28:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

When you are alone together, the intimacy of a kiss will say more than words could ever say. However, you guys met when you were both 16! Much can happen over 8 years especially in the "internal worlds" as you put it. Especially feelings. Be aware that for 1 year, you have been dating and that puts the relationship in another dynamic. Personally, I think you love him. I think he needs to know that. I think you need to be prepared to face the realization that he may not share the depth of your feelings, but even more that he might love you too! Love complicates relationships, but also makes them wonderfully delicious.

2006-07-29 20:41:05 · answer #4 · answered by Monsieur Rick 7 · 0 0

No wonders men have no idea of what woman are talking about,because I read your question twice and still have no idea of what you are trying to say ???? Is it just me ?
Maybe that is why I am still single ..thank god I think lol
Please don't take the advice of the person who said to tell your boyfriend what you just said here,because I am sure that he will be very confused also.
Perhaps you have a sense that you are losing him to someone else,and maybe you are right . Maybe it is because you have set some rules or boundries and maybe that needs to be changed ..I am only guessing here because ...like I said..if a woman told me what you just said ..i would say ..huh?

2006-07-29 20:39:11 · answer #5 · answered by Dfirefox 6 · 0 0

Sounds like you two should just have a heart to heart and see whats up. If you can't do it then print off what you have let complete stranger know about how you feel about him and show him. Good luck hun.

2006-07-29 20:26:34 · answer #6 · answered by LIL_MISS_THANG 1 · 0 0

tell him how you feel. your a person too you know. he might like hearing stuff like that. not all guys listen to what women have to say but Im sure he will listen to you if he loves you. or you could just kiss him and that will prove to him what ur saying?

2006-07-29 20:26:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

light his fire honey> i mean find something you and him might be interested in doin..together.. dont sit around if you really like him... ask HIM what he would like to do... take interest in his hobbies... time waits for no one.

2006-07-29 20:27:21 · answer #8 · answered by CSIGrandma 2 · 0 0

Hope this helps!

2015-05-02 12:30:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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