We have been dating for one year, though we have known each other a long time (8 years, we are both 24) and I feel like neither of us share what is going on in our internal worlds as much as we used to. I am guilty of this too. Even though we see each other fairly regularly, I am missing him. Sharing what is going on with me seems harder and more intimidating than it used to and I find myself shying away from doing so. I am afraid that we are losing our connection. When we spend time alone together, we have a lot of silences that feel comfortable at the time, during which talking feels forced, and afterwards, when the date is about to end, I have this sense of panic, like I want to pull him towards me, into the kind of interaction I want.
2006-07-29
20:21:45
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Jess
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