So, lets say you are a guy and you present yourself as pretty happy and outgoing around your girlfriend.
Then you happen to be at a bar one night without your girlfriend, but you see a gal that you work with and you know a little about her(she just broke up with someone & is drunk). You proceed to motion her to come near and take her outside. While outside you touch her and convince her to go home home with you where you have certain relations with her.
After this evening, you continue to be seemingly happy and outgoing with your girlfriend like nothing has happened or is out of the ordinary.
Is it just me, or did this gal he works with just get used?? Any comments or other thoughts about this??
Thanks for your help!
2006-07-29 20:07:13 · 11 answers · asked by blessedbe111 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ummm well she may or may not have been used... but she doesn't seem to be the issue ~ just kind of a side note. seems more like the guy is not really happy ~ or at least here, saying he "presents himself as happy..." regardless, it's wrong to cheat on your girlfriend no matter the intention. if he's not happy, break up with the girlfriend and sleep with whoever you want. but don't cheat.. it's not fair to her or to you.
2006-07-29 20:16:08 · answer #1 · answered by hello_beautiful_222 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If he were worrying and loved u he ought to have both damaged up including her or advised you he couldn't. Now you shouldbe worry-free on your bf and do not innovations wat ur ex feels see you later as u innovations what u sense. B4 u do something imagine about who you want more effective(not who says they prefer you more effective) when you've determined visit the guy and ask in the adventure that they sense a similar, in the adventure that they do visit the different individual and tell em that's not gonna artwork... If u pik the ex tell him to interrupt mutually with his gf first else she will be able to be all he has, do not look after someones feeling except u care about the guy, and realistically imagine what ought to artwork. desire I helped
2016-10-15 10:25:05 · answer #2 · answered by hosfield 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi there, i think you are definitely not being used, its just that, in that girl's week moment he used her for his indecent urge, on the same hand its a blunder mistake on his part and he should have confessed it to you. And he also cannot afford to loose you on this pretext so probably that is the reason he will never tell you.
Friend its every guys nature to dance on the chance so take it seriously have a good chat with him and sort out everything with cool head and I M SURE ULL GIVE HIM ONE MORE CHANCE
2006-07-29 20:27:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the girl from work knows the guy has a girlfriend, she's not being used. She knows what she's doing is wrong. The guy is a cheating big pig.
2006-07-29 20:16:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She may not have been used if she wasn't falling down drunk and is of legal age. She may have just wanted the one night. But the bigger problem is the guy. He's just a cheating jerk.
2006-07-29 20:10:05 · answer #5 · answered by Kanga_tush2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yah, the scum bag used her b/c he knew she was in an emotional state. What a jerk. I also feel bad for the naive girlfriend. Guys like this should be castrated!!!!
-I'm sorry if any of the people in the story are you. Lose the loser!!!
2006-07-29 20:15:14 · answer #6 · answered by Mandy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The girl he works w/ got used, his girlfriend is being used, in a way, and he is a cheating idiot who will get his own in the end.
2006-07-29 20:13:36 · answer #7 · answered by lizardlover150 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ya she did but if she just got out of a relationship then she was probably looking for a fast fix anyways and I don't know how much attention this girlfriend pays to her boyfriend but most girls know when they get cheated on.
2006-07-29 20:12:19 · answer #8 · answered by MelC 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the guy is a total a hole. if he is at the bar with his gf then why did he hit on another chick??? that girl should leave him right there and then
2006-07-29 20:10:00 · answer #9 · answered by heyheyitsyou 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hells yes
and i think that this guy needs to talk to his girl friend, be honest and except the consequences
2006-07-29 20:11:24 · answer #10 · answered by big_bro 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋