Why do all races of women complain about their men?

Question

Black women are always saying black men treat them bad beacuase we cheat, abandon our families, are in jail, gay, and find other women once we become successful.

Latinas are always saying hispanic men are to macho and expect them to do the traditonal women thing of cooking and cleaning.

White womeen say that white men are bad cause they take them for granted, don't show their feeling to them, and are cold to them.

Asian women say Asian men are to dominating towards them and expect them to be submissive and again to the traditonal women thing of cooking and cleaning.

Arab/Indian women always say that Arab/Indian men are cold and try to control there entire lives. And again be the traditional wife which means cooking, cleaning, and be submissive.

I hear women saying this all the time like they're some how perfect when all they do is *****, whine, spend money, get fat, hire nannies to take care of the kids and cook and are all around head ache.
Ladies are there any men that are good

Thats funny Katrina cause all the women I see are golddiggers, lazy, leeches, bitches, or mental cases. Maybe those men you see aren't pricks but rather know there is nothing but insane women to pick from.

Answer 1

NOBODY IS ANY GOOD BUY A DOG AND TAKE LONG WALKS

Answer 2

Yes, many women do complain about their husbands, but many are just because they are unhappy now, it maybe just because when they first got together the now wife was trying to be a traditional housewife and now is being herself or has just grown tired of the same ol' thing or maybe the husbands have changed and now showing their true self, either way it is no different for any race anywhere in the world, homosexual or straight there will always be thing about your husband or wife that bothers you. And the same ol' thing of " I'm never wrong you are." And yes there are good men out there. I would like to think that i have one of the best, we have our differences but we work them out I'm the housewife I cook,clean, and gripe just as many women have done before me. He is the traditional man, Works,Hangs out with his buddies on the weekends,and he also helps me clean on the weekends before he goes out, so with that said there has to be common ground not all women think that their husbands are worthless hell i wouldn't trade mine for another in the world. But I'm white and my husband is Pacific Islander but i don't think the race difference has any thing to do with it just got lucky lol. And yes i even got fat as well as many other mothers do having kids will do that to you even if you do workout.

Answer 3

Yes there are good men. I think some women just want men from outside their race, so they rag on their own men to try to justify their reasons for dating outside their race. Not all women feel this way. Only some of them do.

Answer 4

All women say this because most men are pricks and if you think about it 8 out of 10 women can say anyone one of those about at least one man she has encountered in her life.

Answer 5

dont be so shallow...hear them out a lil..maybe u''ll see some truth. Women whine cause its thier nature. Women are rather more complicated than average man thats why we complain abt things like that. IT's not like man never complains abt women at all..Cmon its a circle..

Answer 6

well i am a very good man i do all of the cleaning cooking takeing care of my kids evry thing i am a single dad so you have no room to ***** and i have a job on top of all of that plus i took 6 month of parenting school

Answer 7

Okay, I hope this answer will help to solve this conflict, which goes back to Adam and Eve. Once Eve got Adam to take a bite of the apple, that's when the war of the sexes began, and all the blaming and name calling started. Blame it on them. We are just innocent bystanders of their mistakes. I know that's an oversimplification, but I'll try to explain it a different way:

The truth is that both men and women take each other for granted in different ways. It's just human nature to want to criticize each other, because both sexes don't get to observe what the other has to go through on a daily basis. Men have to face things that women would never want to face. I can't imagine being a man, having to work with other men. They are a**holes to each other! I wouldn't want to face that every day. Men have their own set of pressures: to act like men, and not be weak. No crying allowed. No being a sissy. And to show compassion or emotion is frowned upon. And they are still expected to be the primary provider for their families. I'd say society puts a lot of pressure on men, so some men become overly aggressive or act out in other ways. I'm not trying to justify cheating and treating women like crap (i.e. being physically or verbally abusive), and yes, taking a woman or a man for granted is a form of abuse. It's not as bad as the former, but it is a form of neglect. I'm also not trying to justify men's bad behavior, just trying to offer a little understanding.

Now, here's what women have to face. Women have, since the beginning of mankind, been multi-tasked.We're expected to be attractive to men, to go through pregnancy (which is real hell for us), to endure labor pains, and lose our figures. Then our husbands don't appreciate the fact that we lost our figures to have their babies, and complain about how we've let ourselves go. If men only had to experience this from our side, they would see how hard it is to get our bodies back after childbirth. But we still manage to do it. Men would be a lot more understanding of women's moods if they had to go through PMS. It is not fun. Then, we're expected to take care of our babies, and be perfect mothers. On top of that, we're expected to work, to add extra income to the household, while being perfect mothers. Not to mention that there's still a problem with sexual harassment of women in the workplace. It's a problem that way too many of us have had to deal with, and more times than men think. But we put up with it sometimes, because we want to do well for our families. On top of that, we're expected to clean up the house, be their personal chefs, and whatever miscellaneous duties they assign to us. All of this is expected of us while our men are out cheating and playing poker with their buddies, and complaining about how their women take them for granted, and have let themselves go.

It's a vicious cycle, and it can be fixed, if we all just realized that men and women both need to be cared for. There's nothing sissy about that. That's just how humans were made. We've stopped communicating, because to some, it's too much trouble, we don't have enough time, or it's just not cool to do. That's the key. Both men and women need to try to understand each other without judging or name calling.

Yes, there are a lot of men of all races who are all of the things mentioned above. It's true. I know those are stereotypes, but every stereotype has some truth in it. There are a lot of women who are *itches, or worse. But there are also good men and women out there who are just looking for a little love from somebody who cares about them. That's why they're willing to face all the afore-mentioned crap, in hopes of finding true happiness.

Answer 8

DAMN, you have that kind of attitude towards women and you are even wondering why all you hear is bitching???? HERE IS A CLUE--Your negative and need to get over yourself. And yes, I know plenty of good men, infact I know plenty of AMAZING men.

Answer 9

There are men that are good, definately. But don't you think ALL races of guys complain about women too? You included.

Answer 10

Because no matter what we do as men we can NEVER make a woman happy. They need to nag