I am dating more than one man at a time right now. Only one of them know about the other men. Do you think it is healthy to date around before getting to serious. I am not having sex with them so I am not cheating I just wonder if it is unusual?!
2006-07-29 19:40:29 · 30 answers · asked by Carleyheart 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I guess it's ok, if you're not romantically attached with any one of them. Just be careful not to fall into the sex part before both of you are commited to each other.
2006-07-29 19:45:01 · answer #1 · answered by shanghai68 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I can honestly say that dating three men at the same time is unusual to me because I've never dated before. It just seems like a lot. Though I'm not very experienced in relationships, I simply believe that you should only date one person at a time. What if the other guys think that you are only dating just them and they actually want to be in a relationship with you?
2006-07-30 02:46:44 · answer #2 · answered by earthly_virgo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think so. I mean the whole idea of dating is to find the right match for you, and that means selection. I think the only thing that I would do different would be telling all the men that you are dating what is going on. If you end up choosing this guy in the end, you dont want to start things off with a lie or secrets. Be upfront.
2006-07-30 02:45:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is perfectly healthy to date around before getting serious. That's what dating is for! Or what I thought anyways. I think it is impossible for anyone to find Mr. or Miss Right without looking around first. Otherwise it's just "love at first site" and I don't believe in that. I think that "love at first site" is nothing more than lust. You need to date lots of people. Just date the ones you like more than the others, and eventually, you will find someone who you love. Then stay faithful to them, and only them.
2006-07-30 02:46:39 · answer #4 · answered by ichbinreizvoll2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are doing it the way you say you are doing it, I would say it is fine. Only one thing, all of them needs to know about each other. I am soooo glad that you are not having sex with these men.
But yes I would say that you are doing just fine.
My dad, now 83, was dating 4 women at the same time. And none of them knew about the other ones. He never had sex with any of them either. He was wanting a wife and was dating that many at one time for about 6 months. Then one night he decided that he was going to take them all out together on one date, as he had decided as to which one he wanted to marry. He has told this story a many of time. Needless to say that there were a few fights that night among the girls, well all of them but one was fighting. He took all of them to get a hamburger that night and he told them all what he was doing and had been doing. He told them that he was going to take them all home to their houses and what ever girl was left in his truck was the one he wanted for his wife. When it was all said and done, my mom was the last one in his truck. She is now 72, and they have been married for 55 years this last July 14th.
2006-07-30 02:56:50 · answer #5 · answered by SapphireB 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course not - I am also dating 3 men at the same time. I also like women - how about you?
2006-07-30 02:42:14 · answer #6 · answered by Angela Johnson 59 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not unusual. It's not like your sleeping with all of them right? I would tell each man that you are dating others. Just so they know you are an upfront honest sort of woman. Have fun and yes it is smart to do so.
2006-07-30 02:44:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's not unusual cuz guys date like that too...but when people say date around that doesnt mean that you should keep the other guys on a leash and hope that they never find out about the other...cuz if they do they might go crz...so what you should do is be honest...be like look...this isnt serious and i might wanna date other people if there's a problem then walk out the door...you know?
2006-07-30 02:43:27 · answer #8 · answered by klee0926 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no honey.. it is not unusual atall. becuz all the men dating more than 10 girls at a time.. but i can found out that u r a beautiful & smart girl.. if u r under15-16, be careful about ur heart. it is simple to break. take care & good luck
2006-07-30 02:45:36 · answer #9 · answered by scarlet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Normal, better than running to the first one that comes along, play the field until your 30
2006-07-30 02:54:40 · answer #10 · answered by Katrina Y 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋