My 19 year old cousin recently told me that she met a guy about less than a week ago & she had sex with him just yesterday but this is her 2nd sexual partner, the first at least was her boyfriend for 2 years...Do you think this is way too many guys for a 19 year old??? Gimme your opinions cos I dunno what to make of all this...
2006-07-29 19:38:20 · 11 answers · asked by Lolateeny 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I forgot to add that she & her boyfriend broke-up like 5 months back...
2006-07-29 19:58:39 · update #1
There are no set rules to go by and no one can really say yes two guys is too much or anything...it's all opinion. If she's having protected sex, the multiple partners poses less of a risk but I personally would say that one shouldn't be so.... sexually active.
If you're thinking two is too much, you've got a good head on YOUR shoulders, it's respectable. :)
2006-07-29 19:45:09 · answer #1 · answered by wrecked 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's too many for some. And too few for some.
She's sexually active. And she's not thinking clearly. She did not entertain the thought whether the 2-yr bf would mind her doing a -week guy with or without his knowledge. She could have ruined her future, so to speak. Or she was just having fun. And didn't mind at all whether these 2 relationships work out or not. It depends on her value system. She could be just enjoying the ride (pardon the pun). It's her decision. It's her freedom of choice. So, she'll face her own outcome & live through it.
Sadly, the world seem to "modernize" and sexual morality seems to be cloudy and not much of a concern anymore to alot of people worldwide, I observed.
One compete to have as many sexual partners to prove their worth. Sadly, they do not know the more partners they have, the less worth they really have. All these casual activities are done in the moment of fun, without attachments & commitments. They just keep doing to fill up the real vacuum in them. After doing, they're all sad & lonely again. And they look for another. It goes on & on.
Till the day they realize they should just stick to one they really love, be loved in return, to feel the wholesome goodness in love & life.
2006-07-30 02:51:40 · answer #2 · answered by Queenie Tay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
2 lovers at 19 years of age? Considering how young boys and girls both are starting, that's not that bad. My concern would be how quickly she was willing to jump into the sack with this most recent guy. She hasn't even had time to get to know him. Unless she still has her boyfriend of two years. Then that is definately too many. Guys that do that are called pigs and players.
2006-07-30 03:21:51 · answer #3 · answered by rsqur 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex is a great experience have all of it you like but remember you have a reputation and if people think your a tramp it could really hurt you in life be yourself and the people that really matter will love you as you are even if you had sex with 19 guys, so its an experiment who knows you could be hit by a car tomorrow and never get a chance to test the water , so to speak. God I hope you don't get hit though.
2006-07-30 02:45:03 · answer #4 · answered by digger227 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, not alot I guess. I'm not saying it's right or wrong, I really have no place to talk, I had easily doubled that number by the age of 14. If she's being safe, and she's not doing it for the wrong reasons, there is really nothing wrong about that.
2006-07-30 02:42:53 · answer #5 · answered by outlandsishlady 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First it's not your business to worry about. Second, I've known girls who've had 2 kids by 19.
2006-07-30 02:43:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe the average adult - female or male - will have five sx partners in their life. She's two down - three to go at least!
2006-07-30 02:43:29 · answer #7 · answered by HomeSweetSiliconValley 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One guy should be enough! She is such a fool to be so unfaithful. Sorry
2006-07-30 02:42:44 · answer #8 · answered by Tash 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
noooooooooooooo
2006-07-30 02:43:04 · answer #9 · answered by crazygirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No she is almost a virgin.
2006-07-30 02:46:38 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋