Why do lots of women say they want a 'nice guy' but they end up going for the ones that treat them badly

Answer 1

The type of woman who says 1 thing and does another because she has too many issues within herself to think she's good enough for that "nice" guy. So, not all of us, women, just the ones with deep issues. Sure, all humans like someone who's going to turn them on but what's nice to one person is not what is "nice" to another. It's all in background/baggage and things like that. YOU may be a wonderful guy, and so you want someone to appreciate your nice side and your naughty side (WHICH ALL MEN HAVE, I'm sure, with right woman) (and EVERYONE: nice guys have it, think: Benji Schwimmer and Donyelle Jones from So You Think You Can Dance) and who respects you and who you RESPECT.

Men do it too. There are some men who won't commit and only want a woman who "put out" but are selfish enough to take everything you have then say you were "too nice". They will subconsciously or consciously sabotage a relationship just because of that.

Answer 2

because they like excitement in there lives but they want the bad boys and really are looking for the nice guys way of treating women, in other words they want there cake and to eat it too....... Maybe this will explain it men and women have two sides to there brains left & right, men in most cases use only part of one side, women on the other hand use a small part of both sides and this is why women can never make up there minds. God made man then added the wo (like stop).Or male then added the fee (like its gonna cost you).

Answer 3

Why do guys immediately turn women into objects the minute they become sexually attracted to them?

See, what's happening is one of two things:

the women like the nice friendship that happens before the attraction, and when he starts to feel attracted, it's somehow too late to turn back, or

the women have come to the conclusion that they can only expect respect from a man who doesn't find them attractive, but they have concluded that being attractive to someone is more important than respect....

I myself have done none of the above. If I have to choose between respect and 'being attractive', then I choose respect. Hands down. Literally - as in, no touching.

Answer 4

Nice guys don't get laid.

Ever notice how all the hot girls keep complaining about guys they hooked up with who turned out to be assholes? You could be that guy! The guy who has his way with her one night, then leaves the next day and is never heard from again. Or maybe hooks up with her for a few weeks, then she finds out he has another girl on the side.

Get to Leykis 101. Learn the mind of women. Be the bad boy she wants.

Answer 5

hahaha that's me!!! not saying that there is anything wrong with nice guys, and i personally wouldn't mind a nice one ~ as opposed to ??? but the one nice guy i was dating had no personality. he agreed with everything i said, did, even when i would be visibly upset about something totally irrelevant to him, he was, well, nice. The perfect mix, a nice guy who is also a man ~ has his own opinions about things, and doesn't give in to his partner's every whim because he's trying to be nice. and on a last note ~ as women mature, nice guys start looking a whole lot better :)

Answer 6

prominent ones? What about George Clooney? The eternal Hollywood bachelor it is not in any respect been married once had a huge gamble with some Hollywood actresses that he'd be married by technique of the time he became 40, wager he received that wager. i wager that's not demanding to be effective and not in any respect make women mad once you're handsome, wealthy and charmng. Hugh Hefner has stated that he retains contact with all his exes yet one which's a housewife someplace. i imagine the ladies that he receives in contact with comprehend and settle for his existence-type. He can't be too a lot of a jerk if old gfs like Barbie Benton nevertheless come round to his applications and delivers him a hug and a kiss. men i in my opinion comprehend? I extremely have an ex-boyfriend that i actually do not hate. I dated him for a year, he continuously dealt with me nicely, yet not in any respect made too many delivers to me. So how am i able to be mad at someone who continuously took me to effective places, gave me effective presents, helped me with my existence complications, yet became basically not all there for me emotionally? I form of can't. i wager all i'll do is basically seem at him as form of a peculiar enigma of a guy that became alluring and effective and relaxing. i imagine the secret of fellows who're extremely effective and valuable with women and cope with to allure to diverse them is to not promise too a lot and take care of them nicely. except you're some form of loopy nut how can you've it in for a guy that became extremely sweet to you yet form of emotionally unavailable?

Answer 7

not all women do that.

but, women, like men, tend to like you more if they think you're a bit of a challenge. if men are more dismissive, women wonder why, and try to improve themselves and please him, because then they're afraid he'll leave. however, if a man is blatantly into a woman, she may feel too stable and bored.

this is not how all women are, but it's how some are...sorry, buddy, i really am rooting for all of the nice guys

Answer 8

Because like men us women like a challenge too....it's just a little bit different type of challenge.

Men like the chase....once they get into your pants they slowly start loosing interest. Girls on the other hand like the challenge of always keeping him interest. (much tougher and longer process I may add....dudes got it easy) So if a guy is "easy" to keep around she starts loosing interest......Get it?

Girls want a nice guy yes....but they want one they can change into a nice guy. To a girls logic that's how she KNOWS he really loves her!!! Because he changed for her. *sigh* gotta love the game dude!!

Answer 9

adventure...thats all ..we've got this thing that good guys dont seem thrilling n adventurous and the whole relationship is gonna be boring. So being a lady (no matter how much they deny)they love drama...somehow bad boys can provide that.

Answer 10

Because even though they want what's best for them self's. Nothings better than a challenge.