i had an ex.we borke up because he's reviewing for board while i had to land a job because my dad wanted to and because of the opportunity.he told me had to concentrate on his review therefore he wouldn't have time on me.if we really were meant for each other,we would be.he told me i can entertain suitors but if i can wait he'll be much happier.but there will be no assurance that it will still be the same when time comes
2006-07-29 19:24:12 · 4 answers · asked by valeri c 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I really, truly think it's time to let go. There's no indication from this guy that he's trying to hang on with all his might; which he WOULD do if he was serious about you.
So, let go.
And you'll find that there is someone out there who WON'T want to let you go, not for a second~
Good luck.
2006-07-29 19:30:57 · answer #1 · answered by Tash 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is it a very long wait? 1-yr? 2-yr? Some relationships survived the ordeal. He loves you enough to let you go. He knows it's unfair for you to wait. He wants the best for you. I believe you wish to wait but fear the outcome may not be worth waiting. Meanwhile, continue your friendship with him. Keep each other updated. At least both of you know where your frendship/relationship is leading to. Any suitors on each end? etc. While keeping in touch, you'll also know is he's seeing someone else. If so, at least you can let go & wish him all the best. And maintain your friendship with him.
2006-07-30 02:38:27 · answer #2 · answered by Queenie Tay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Am a boy saying this crap is makingme uncomfordable saying this but if i have to help people i have to say this your a woman of self-pride right women should not have tears over men for anything your a independent women they all are but theres a time where you have to let go people always bitchin sorry for language there about this and that i get pissed of for that let go there is no man out there to be with this what i say if the men dont stay with you then dont stay with them even if he has an important job to do leave him thats what i can say for now.
2006-07-30 02:32:50 · answer #3 · answered by LUIS ROSA 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you cant take any more then you know it's time to let go...but if you want to try and wait go hed...but it prolly wont be worth it in the end...my advice...move on and find someone who can give you his time...because if he really wanted it to work he woulda gave you some time even if it was just 5 mins...
2006-07-30 02:29:51 · answer #4 · answered by klee0926 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋