I know he cares and he told me he loved me once but when other people ask him when im not around he says he doesnt think so or that hes not sure. what should i do? please help me!!!!!!
2006-07-29 19:14:51 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
girl just give it time. i've been with my guy for about a year now and STILL don't think i love him. you'll know soon enough whether or not he does and it's not so much in the words. people say that every day without even a hint of what love really is.
2006-07-29 19:30:24 · answer #1 · answered by hello_beautiful_222 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
OMG! My bf is the same way, when he is around his friends, he pretty much ignores me, here's the thing, if he hasn't broken up with you yet, that means he still likes you, I mean sure, he may not not love you "right now" but trust me, if you give it some time, call him on the phone, IM him, email him. He will eventually say it. I've been dating my bf for about 5 months, and he just started saying "luv ya babe" like....... last month. He even sang me a song. But if you don't think that its working out, well, you're smart, you'll do the right thing, I hope.
2006-07-30 02:24:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't leave him because he's honest just because he doesn't love you right now doesn't mean he never will or that he doesn't like you. Supposedly we date people to find the person we want to marry and spend the rest of our lives with. I didn't love my fiance at 3 months honestly he grew on me now we are inseperable. I never told anybody I loved him and I never told him I loved him but alot of guys will say that to avoid hurting your feelings. As long as he still wants to be in a relationship with you then he has some feelings give him some time to sort it out for himself 3 months weighed over a lifetime really is a pretty short span of time.
2006-07-30 02:24:28 · answer #3 · answered by Sarah S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just give him time. there's no statement that says he must love you at three months or it's over. don't pressure him into saying it, or ask why, or are you sure, if he does say it. just cool it. maybe if you don't say it for a while, that would be good too.
some people just take longer to realize that they love someone, or be confident enough to say it.
2006-07-30 02:17:59 · answer #4 · answered by al 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should confront him about it, because it might just be gossip your worried about. And if it is true, you should totally dump him for really wasting your time.
2006-07-30 02:20:31 · answer #5 · answered by Tash 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well u shoul tell him how u feel .and asked him the truth .if he really loves u he will tell u that he do.
2006-07-30 02:19:32 · answer #6 · answered by canadian 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave, you wasted enough time. You are too young to be worrying about it anyway.
2006-07-30 02:17:37 · answer #7 · answered by dappersmom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think he may tell you to your face that he loves you to not hurt you (that's what my boyfriend did when he didnt love me)... but just give it time... eventually, if you guys are meant for each other, he will love you... just wait...
2006-07-30 02:18:02 · answer #8 · answered by baby bear 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if he goes to far with this leave is scrawny behind i mean see i hate people that do this crap you know what i mean why do mean do this crap thats my question he is not worth it going out for just ask him why are doing this crap if not your chioce leave his behind
2006-07-30 02:26:39 · answer #9 · answered by LUIS ROSA 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say time
2006-07-30 02:19:18 · answer #10 · answered by LB James 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋