I really love my husband but i am mad. I want him to have 3some with my bestfriend. She is very pretty and willing. It is my fantasy but he says im nasty for wanting it. What do i do? I am angry at him.
2006-07-29 19:01:29 · 16 answers · asked by mecula 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You have to respect his wishes. His body, his mind, his heart, his choice.
Do you really want to put your marriage at risk over a whim, a fantasy?
2006-07-29 19:04:48 · answer #1 · answered by Otis F 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Your husband has to be the first guy in the history of humanity who has turned down the chance to have a 3some with two women. But if he doesn't want to do it than there is no way that you can make him.
2006-07-30 02:06:03 · answer #2 · answered by the_world_is_yours44 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't want to sound harsh, but your husband is right. It IS nasty and a half! I can never imagine having a three-some with my best friend. It would feel incestuous even. Don't do it. Bringing a third wheeler into your marriage will only cause harm, sooner or later. No good can come out of it. It is degrading. Doesn't anyone have any respect for the sanctity of marriage anymore?
2006-07-30 02:13:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should be thankful! You know how many women are against threesomes with other women and their husbands!? Tons! You shouldn't pressure your husband or make him feel guilty for not wanting to participate in that. How would you feel if he tried to pursuade you into something you weren't comfortable with.
He may have good reason for not wanting this threesome. There is alot of jealousy that can arise from threesomes, and maybe he doesn't want to risk that. Those type of things can either make or break ya. Do you really think a night of fun will be worth the chance of losing your husband?
2006-07-30 02:07:47 · answer #4 · answered by Kristen A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shame on you for trying to bring your husband into your sordid,perverted concept of "love". It sounds like you love your pretty, willing best friend,over and above your marriage vows.But if you think that there is many people who think that what you're proposing is something great, you're probably right.But if you had a sense of shame, you would never have offered your husband this type of shared intimacy,or publicly exposed your ignorance.So sense you ask for input,here's my opinion.Apologize to your husband and close the door to your "fantasy".
2006-07-30 02:14:27 · answer #5 · answered by Daddy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First calm down its not gonna help yelling and screaming, second find out his feelings and why he doesn't want to and you'll have to work from there. He may just be afraid of letting anyone else into what is a very intimate experience. This is a real fear and you don't want to push him in to it, so take your time see what his reasons are. It may be that he's just a little jealous. Most guys like it but thats how my fiance is...he doesn't want me doing anything with anyone else no matter who it is.
2006-07-30 02:08:35 · answer #6 · answered by Sarah S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marriage is for two ..NOT three. How about if He proposed to marry that best friend of yours? Would you be jelous...I bet you would. You need help to overcome your fantasy. I respect your husband. He wants to sustain your marriage, but you want to ruin it. You are simply inviting him to starting having sex with other women, and that can ruin everything between you and your husband. Just stop being angry, be happy and go have fun..two of you only.
2006-07-30 02:10:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are lucky to have someone like him. he's a one woman man, be happy .that mean he rather have sex with only you .he's looking at you not her.if he have sex with her he might end up cheating on you with her ,than you is going to be looking stupid.you don;t have to have a 3some to spice up your love life. don't run off and do something you are going to regret.
2006-07-30 02:12:00 · answer #8 · answered by ilieja 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should respect your partners wishes. Expanding your love to a third person is something he clearly does not want. He wants your love to be mutual and is not interested in any intimacy with nobody except his wife. Love him for it.
2006-07-30 02:05:39 · answer #9 · answered by trigunmarksman 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'll be your pinch-hitter. He can sit in the dug-out while I hit grand slam home runs.
2006-07-30 02:05:55 · answer #10 · answered by Dino4747 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋