We've been in contact with eachother for about 9months a i recently went to Germany for school, and while i was there i got to meet her. I really like her alot but seeing as we are both in highschool still i dont know if i should terll her how i feel. I think about her alot. We have almost everything in common and talk for hours literally every chance we get via InstantMessageing. Ive invited her over next summer to stay for two weeks and she dosent know if she can yet. I think that she has the same thoughts about me as i do her, she's is maybe a littler more mature than I though; but i can find no excuse to deny our mutual feelings. But these feelings go unsaid because i suppose we know we cant be together anytime soon, but wouldnt it be great if we did end up together one day?we each tell eachother how happy we are that we are friends, she even told me that she loved me, in a friendly way; but maybe it was more, Should i tell her that i want to one day be more than just friends?
2006-07-29 18:41:30 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No, don't tell her how you feel. That's a bad idea in general, and a really bad idea here because long-distance relationships don't work. Even though a relationship probably wouldn't work between you two at this point, you should stay friends with her. Maybe you could study at a German college when you get out of high school, and she could introduce you to some people when you get there. Good luck!
2006-07-29 18:49:07 · answer #1 · answered by anonymous 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Of course! Life just gets better when you stop hiding your feelings, take chances. Honesty just rules. Its so liberating. Good things will come of it in ways you can never predict.
2006-07-29 18:47:05 · answer #2 · answered by carolynator 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In Germany the legal system is very very lenient -- especially for women. Maybe she is a child-killer...
2006-07-29 18:45:28 · answer #3 · answered by Kozlinaya Golova 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never live your life with regrets... short and simple... always tell them how you feel before its too late.. you never know how they may feel about you...GO FOR IT!
2006-07-29 19:07:36 · answer #4 · answered by heather c 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should definitely tell her. German chicks eat that stuff up.
2006-07-29 18:52:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋