Is it possible to trust someone again after they've cheated? or should I?

Question

I've been with this guy for a little over a year... off and on. It's been about a month since I last saw him and he came back around just this week, talking about "there's nobody else," and I f**ked up and all that." While I do care, I am hesitant so am basically wondering if it's even worth a shot?

Answer 1

hmm well that all depends on the person .. I think its possible to get the trust back if its something you wanna do ..Its not easy but it is possible ive been there and done it but first you gotta except what he done and forgive him ..you cant throw it in his face and stuff .. you gotta put it behind you and move forward ..noone is perfect everyone makes mistakes ..hopefully he's learned from his ! I say if you love him then take that chance ...its a chance we all take in life ..you know sometimes it hurts more wondering what coulda been ..I cant tell you what to do but i can say follow your heart just do what makes you happy ..good luck to yah girl !

~Much Love~

Answer 2

No! Because if he did it once before then he will do it again. Take a few minutes to evaluate your relationship with him and then once you reallize that is not the one then leave and find some one that will love you for you and not other women. Cause if you look at it you can get an sexual transmitted disease from him cheatting. Especially if he is not wearing protection.Move on with your life and never look back.

Answer 3

You always hear "once a cheater, always a cheater". But that isn't always the case. Some people do learn their lessons, and realize their mistakes, and change their ways. But if you have done this more then once with this guy, you might want to think about calling it quits for good. And one more piece of advice, always trust your gut instinct.

Answer 4

The same thing happened 2 me. Its not worth the shot. Move on even if u really like him. When my ex said the same I jus couldn't believe any more i knew he was going to do the same thing again it hard cuz i really love him, but after a while i moved on

Answer 5

No once a cheater always.But if u really love this person. Make him earn back yur trust ,dont just give it back so he can keep doing this then you wont be a challenge Men like challenges especially the ones u cant trust

Answer 6

Well it is easy to forget about the pain at first but once you get back together for awhile you start to remember how bad it hurt and "can I really trust him?" It hurts and I don't think a relationship can work for the long haul aftr someone cheats! Obviously they didn't love you to begin with!

Answer 7

Never. You will never gain the trust again.
I read something someone on here wrote that impressed me.
If you break a glass, and glue the broken parts back together, the glued parts will still be weak. It will never be the same.
Spare yourself and end it now.

Answer 8

Usually you may forgive,...but you will never truely forget.
As for the second part, {is it worth it?}. Well...u know him better than any of us,{i guess}. Listen 2 your heart and be careful.
It's kind of like trick or treating,...dont give a treat until u know it's not a trick. Good luck.

Answer 9

I think some what u prolly could but to my opion once a cheater always a cheater it will be hard building trust back in do you know what i mean?

Answer 10

No, don't do it! There are no second chances in love. Trust cannot be restored perfectly once it's been lost. Good luck with the next guy!