I was at a bar the other night because I was the designated driver. I decided to have fun and dance a bit and I grinded with a guy. I didn't get horny and it meant absolutely nothing to me, I was just having fun dancing to a good song. I am in a 2-year relationship with a man I will love and cherish 'til the end of time, but he got EXTREMELY angry when he found out what I did...
2006-07-29 18:14:11 · 15 answers · asked by Everything 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
And if he would do that, I wouldn't care as long as he didn't get horny and he didn't touch the girl in inappropriate places.
2006-07-29 18:18:33 · update #1
Well sweety its not wrong.I thank he has some insecurities or just plain out jealousy.So just asure him that he's the only one for you and that it meant nothing when you danced with the oher guy.Tell him how you feel and your story of what happened and tell him you want to work this issue out and there is no sense in acting like this.Or thank how you'd feel if he done the same to try and see where he's coming from.I dont see nothing wrong with it though.
2006-07-29 18:19:51 · answer #1 · answered by Kristy V 2 · 1⤊ 4⤋
Well I say yes and no. Yes because you have been in a 2 year relationship and you still thought it was ok to just grind on someone that wasn't your bf for fun. And no because it was kinda harmless. Not like you slept with the guy. But still I say you should just keep things like that to flirting. Most guys look over flirting but outright touching will always piss em off.
2006-07-30 01:19:11 · answer #2 · answered by Bloody Kisses 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't beat yourself up about it. You made a mistake, and you learned a valuable lesson...and that is....your boyfriend doesn't like to see you "grinding" with another man. Grinding sounds so intimate, and that is something that you should only give to him. This man has given you two years of his life, and he has a right to feel angry. Apologize for your behavior and inform him that this will NEVER happen again. Then, jump on his joystick and go crazy, and make him remember why he loves you so much!
2006-07-30 01:28:57 · answer #3 · answered by adjoadjo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ummm.... It depends... Was he expecting you to grind upon some random guy... and did the guy get horny...
I can understand if he knows that you like to party... but being in a commited relationship does kind of mean that your not going to grind on random guys, especially if he's not there...
Maybe it's just me...
2006-07-30 01:19:55 · answer #4 · answered by Rob D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just think about if the tables were turned and lets say you walked in and saw your man freaking up on some chick. You would be furious. As would be most women. He is jealous that you are giving your attention to someone besides him.
2006-07-30 01:18:49 · answer #5 · answered by Cheryl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah imagine walking in on him at a bar grinding another women...How will it feel. Keep that in mind whenever u do something out of order. Ask urself how would it feel it he did that to me.
2006-07-30 01:18:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im a girl .. but I know that if my boyfriend was grinding on someone I would be jealous.. I mean its nothing you can't work through.. but it probably wasn't the best choice. .. but there are definately worse things.
2006-07-30 01:18:50 · answer #7 · answered by ice_sickle007 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Exactly how much grinding where you doing? If it wasn't to much then your guy should not get too mad. Hes probably just being protective.
2006-07-30 01:17:17 · answer #8 · answered by *Baby* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm, maybe i am old fashion, i believe if u r with a guy then u r with him in and out, how would u feel if it was him, seriously, u can have fun and dance without dancing with another guy.
2006-07-30 01:20:14 · answer #9 · answered by kimnnano 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course he was angry...turn the tables and see how you would feel if he danced with some girl like that....
2006-07-30 01:17:19 · answer #10 · answered by intelligentbooklady 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋