He immediately pulled his sheet up and rolled over on his side like he was sleeping. I was on my way to work and just stopped in for a kiss with about 2 minutes to burn. He is so embarrassed, but we have talked about this before and I want him to feel comfortable. I dont care if he does it. Should I say anything?
2006-07-29 18:00:13 · 15 answers · asked by happydawg 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He was married for a long time and getting him to let it out, so to speak is the hardest thing I have ever done. He dont make a peep or a groan or a moan during sex. He has issues there. He will not tell me what he likes. Its like mission impossible.
2006-07-29 18:07:54 · update #1
I would never embarrass him. It took me about 3 months to get him to pull his pants down after we met. He told me when he took me to his bedroom the 1st time and left me to go potty, he expected me to have some clothes on when he got back. TRUE STORY.
2006-07-29 18:13:07 · update #2
You should try to defuse the situation AND take the opportunity for some fun, IMHO . Tell him you saw it and thought it was sexy. Ask if you can watch the next time he does it. Afterward, ask him to watch you while you masturbate. Then, take turns stimulating each other. You'll learn about each other and have some fun too.
2006-07-29 18:05:07 · answer #1 · answered by Otis F 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
While you two are in bed together, or you just got done fooling around, whatever. Just say, "You know what would turn me on? Seeing you masturbate!" If he says something like ya really? just say "ya, it really turned me on when i saw you doing it the other night." if he says like, nah I'm not comfortable doing that. then say "honey, i saw you doing it the other night. It really made me feel good to know that you are so comfortable with yourself. I just wish that you could be that comfortable around me." Hope that helps!!
2006-07-30 01:06:43 · answer #2 · answered by Heather616 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it were me I don't think I would say anything. It is perfectly natural as you know and the best thing to do in my opinion is to not mention it. I am pretty sure he probably knows you saw him anyway and he is probably hoping that you won't say anything. It's no big deal to you so I would let him know that by simply not saying anything at all.
2006-07-30 01:06:03 · answer #3 · answered by jennikay32 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i agree next time you should just join in if you both agree that its OK to masturbate. well HELP THE GUY! lol it might take the relationship to new levels. right now it seems like you think of masturbation as a taboo or something really serious. when is really not.
2006-07-30 01:08:09 · answer #4 · answered by vessenic3x3 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's embarrassed let it go. Maybe next time he'll remember to lock the door? Otherwise I'd say to jump in and join him next time, espically if you have the time to spare.
2006-07-30 01:03:28 · answer #5 · answered by myshira 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Next time stop and ask him if you could please help. And YES let him know its OK by suggesting that you both do it together. Nevermind, just start doing it to yourself, then call him into the room and tell him you want to see him touch himself.
This was too easy.
Have fun.
2006-07-30 01:06:46 · answer #6 · answered by LaineeTheCat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let him know your cool with it. that way there won't be any akward moments like this again. maybe you guys can sit back and laugh about it, maybe he has desires that he hasn't told you about due to fear that you will not like what he has to say. I don't really see how it could turn out bad if ya do.
2006-07-30 01:05:54 · answer #7 · answered by R. O 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably not...well at least don't go to him about the situation. Let him come to you!! If he truly wants to talk to you about the situation than he will...no doubt about it. And it's best to keep it to yourself and not tell any of your friends because chances are that word will get back to him. So wait and see if he comes to you.....if not than don't bother about the situation.
2006-07-30 01:05:39 · answer #8 · answered by Jessica Renee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is obviously not comfortable with it yet i would just act as if nothing happened and maybe at a later date when you two are more open about it tell him that it does not bother you and maybe ask if you can help?
2006-07-30 01:05:10 · answer #9 · answered by tabbycat02 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call him chicken choker from now on....follow that up with pointing and laughing.
2006-07-30 01:05:51 · answer #10 · answered by vitamin_t1979 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋