I am a nice guy.I am 29. I treat women right and buy presents and they all say I am sweet and nice. I alwaus try to smell good and be a great friend and treat women like queens. But they always wanna be just friends, while lots of jerks get the girls. I try to be the best friend possible, I wish I could get a girlfriend.
2006-07-29 17:54:52 · 9 answers · asked by YoWhoIsThisMan 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I only want to date girls.
2006-07-29 17:59:18 · update #1
This is almost sad!
You don't need to buy a woman anything... you don't need to worship her. That could be the problem... a girl normally doesn't want a man that's at her feet. She wants a tough guy that she may have to make an extra effort to have.
But... I ended up with my "just friend" sweet guy so... haha
2006-07-29 17:59:41 · answer #1 · answered by wrecked 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls like the jerks because of the excitement and the thought that we can change them. We say we want the sensitive nice guy but we don't. We really want a jerk to change into a sensitive nice guy. But it never works. So we just keep trying. And we have the sensitive nice guy friends to listen to us wine about it.
2006-07-30 01:03:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe that only screwed up women really like jerks. What they really want is the decisiveness, the confidence, and the lack of predictability of the jerk, I don' think healthy women like the abuse that often comes with those things....but I could be wrong.
Work on the things you can, that are not contrary to your true nature. Suprize them with things to do on dates, make certain choices for them
2006-07-31 14:51:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're confusing a friendship strategy with a sexual attraction strategy.
There are different strategies for dealing with people in the categories of friendship, sexual attraction, leadership, and so on.
You need to spend some time learning what turns women on. Body, confidence, decisiveness, and being kind of wild turn them on sexually.
by the way, if you buy presents they think you're trying to bribe them, so stop doing that. keep the presents to socially appropriate times like birthdays and holidays.
2006-07-30 01:00:08 · answer #4 · answered by electroberry1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps you have not really asked anybody to be your girlfriend. As you said, you only want to date girls but that is not enough to have a girlfriend because you have to court a girl first before she will know that you want her to be your girl.
If you happen now to like a girl, date her once, twice, and so forth but during one of your dates with her, you should be prepared to tell her that you like her to be your girlfriend. If that woman likes you too, for sure she will accept your proposal.
2006-07-30 01:03:34 · answer #5 · answered by Ruzzo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's really unfortunate. Even I don't understand why the jerks get the ladies. That's foolish. I get you. Hey, you'll find that special gal someday. I wish you my very best, dude. Good Luck!
2006-07-30 01:00:35 · answer #6 · answered by Drivliam 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just wait. someone will come... i had the same issue for like ever. I was allways misslead by girls n' ****. But you have somthing that those other guys don't, you can actually please girls while carring about them. Focous on the one girl you like, spend time with her. Tell her how you feel, no matter what you think she's gonna say.
2006-07-30 01:04:41 · answer #7 · answered by zach 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it takes time when ur trying 2 find the right person
2006-07-30 01:01:34 · answer #8 · answered by naashomwheeler 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HANG IN THERE ... IF SHE WONT TURN UP SOON ..MAYBE HE WILL.
2006-07-30 00:58:37 · answer #9 · answered by pez 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋