2006-07-29 17:45:53 · 40 answers · asked by carebear0404882005 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If he is really trying to blackmail you into a threesome, you need to dump him and move on. It's your body, your mind, and your heart. Do what you feel is right.
2006-07-29 17:48:58 · answer #1 · answered by Otis F 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Maybe compramise with him and find someone who isn't so close to ya'll. Have a 3some with your b/f is a bad, BAD idea! If you are not into having a 3some at all, then tell him that. If he leaves then he doesn't really love you anyway.
2006-07-29 17:48:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not your best/f- get someone you'll know but isnt to close to the relationship! I think it will open to many doors for a lover and a best/ f to see eachother naked! Ive seen relationships go sour cause of that! Lover and best bud!
You will always have your best bud- dont mess it up cause some guy wants his needs satisfied
2006-07-29 17:50:57 · answer #3 · answered by this is me... 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you dont mind having a 3some, try and see if you can find someone that isnt so close to you or him, and if you really believe that he would leave you just because you dont wanna have a threesome with your best friend, then is he really worth your time?
2006-07-29 17:49:49 · answer #4 · answered by dezire_nz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl this man is going to leave you either way it goes. Obviously he is bored with the sex with you and wants to invite a new party...... so u know if men are not being satisfied in the bedroom then they tend to "head" somewhere else.... and we both know when you find that sh-t out you are going to either kill him or her or both. So is it worth the jail time. Nah..... if u don't want to do it... then don't. Sh-t I am curious about a threesome but with two men though.... but if i was into women i would definitely not add my best friend to the picture.... ugh dirty and wrong. and potential homicide.......lmao good luck
2006-07-29 17:54:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've had them, and they never are healthy. Someone will pay more attention to someone, they will catch me sleeping with them later behind their back, lots of bullshit. I still loved it though.
But if you fear that he will leave if you don't , you need to realize that giving him that won't keep him. It will only make it worse, if he talks about 3somes that much he's already on his way out......sorry.
2006-07-29 17:50:26 · answer #6 · answered by Compulsory23 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
simple answer if he is prepared to leave you because you don't want a threesome then you are better off without him, so show him the door, and find a guy who will love you for you and who will be more than satisfied to have you as a friend let a lone his lover.
my personal opinion
2006-07-29 17:51:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
who cares if he leaves? you should never do anything you dont want to, & a 3some ruins most relationships anyway. stick to your guns, and if he leaves you for that then he doesnt love you anyway & isnt worth your time-
2006-07-29 17:49:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think if he'll leave just because you don't feel comfortable having a threesome, you deserve better. Let him leave then! Don't do something you don't want to do just so you can keep the guy!
2006-07-29 17:47:45 · answer #9 · answered by ImCuteAndSoAreYou 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him not to let the door hit him in the a*ss.
You have to. otherwise this guy will walk all over you. He probably is trying to just get with your girlfriend through you anyway - that would be the stupidest thing you could do. Dont
2006-07-29 17:49:30 · answer #10 · answered by drewwers 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First Id slap the sh*t out of him for looking at any of my friends in a sexual way then Id say get the H E L L out, I deserve better.
2006-07-29 17:56:27 · answer #11 · answered by Ashley 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋