How do You Tell A Girl You like her on msn & make it sound good?

Question

Well it all begins like this.. i have a really good friend, we're pretty close. he has a twin sister, that i really like. i dont wanna really ask her out.. i just wanna tell her how i feel about her and stuff and i wanna she what she thinks back of me. so basically i wanna take this slow, i think she likes me back cuz she flirts a little bit with me, and tells me alot of useless junk i dont wanna hear that only a girl would talk about and puts a guy to sleep.

but yea. i need help to tell her on msn that i like her, with feeling and meaning to it.

can anyone help me?

thanks :)

Answer 1

The first thing you should do is let your friend know what you are feeling. If you "back door" him and he finds out after the fact, he might be hurt, offended and resentful of you - it could ruin your friendship.

Assuming he is cool with your feelings about his sister, you will need to determine if you want him to help feel her out about how she feels for you or if you want him to promise not to tell her or get involved. It might be good if the three of you went to a movie or miniature golf and lunch or dinner. This will give you a chance to talk, flirt and get a feel for each other outside the confines of their house.

Try to spend time with both or them and try to get some alone time with her.

You can playfully tease her and try to engage in playful tickle fights (as long as you respect her and stop when she wants you to stop). Soon, she will know that you are interested in her. Then you can discuss your feelings with each other. This can be done on MSN or in person.

I hope that she has feelings for you and I wish you all the best!

PS. If she has indicated to you on MSN that she likes you, it is ok to say that you like her too. Let he know that you like it when she flirts with you. If you really try to take interest in the "junk" she tells you, you may end up in a golden friendship/relationship!

Answer 2

I would agree that you should tell your guy friend before telling his sister how you feel. He will feel included, and not like you are going to make him the third wheel if something happens between you and his sister.
I'm not familiar with MSN, but I'm assuming this is a sort of instant messanger. I would say that since it sounds like you guys talk frequently and she seems to be pretty comfortable with you, you're pretty good from the start. Just start off with a normal conversation, maybe say something to make her laugh, make sure the conversation doesn't hit lots of bumps. And then, I guess you could probably just be pretty straight forward about it. I mean, lead into it a little bit, like 'there's something I've been meaning to tell you' or something like that. But either way, she'll let you know. And if your friendship is good enough, you'll be able to pull through no matter the outcome.

Answer 3

well first of all you should take it slow... tell her how you actually feel when you talk to her.... ask her iff she feels the same way.... ask her out.... go somewhere where nobody will bother you two AT ALL.... also make it romantic (it does not need to be expensive)..... think about it good and i know that you will get it threw.. GOOD LUCK BUDDY!!!!