a few days a go I asked about the guy who could not get it up and wether it was me or him. Well, alot of people advised that I call him because he was probablly embarrest. I did call him back and when he answered. I told him that was was thinking of not callin him any more because i'm embarresed of calling when i am not called first. He assured me that it was him that was embarrased and reminded me that he told me to call him and to not think the way i was thinking, and told me to call him when I got out of work. I asked that he call me when he wasnt busy later that day. He agreed. Never called. Then I called that night around 10 and he did not answer, that was embarrasing for me, cus i dont like to beg nor be a bug. I put my pride aside today again and I called him again, no answer. And he carries his cell phone with him at all times, i think. So now I'm Xtremly embaressed so I erased his # from my phone so I wont call him again since i dont remember it. Did I do the right thing?
2006-07-29 17:32:51 · 15 answers · asked by Maria 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
get a clue, its u
2006-07-29 17:36:21 · answer #1 · answered by hunglow 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Interesting....... I will require more information on this. Like do you really like him?
I'm trying to clean this up, to explain what I think happened:
When a guy gets erect, the comfortable he is the harder he becomes.
So he maybe really into you and is very nervous about making you happy. That, stress, can make a man (or woman) "limp". Or he may not be interested in you. I'm not sure.
Most guys aren't very happy about having a poor sex life. In this world there's a lot of pressure on guys to perform well and all the time. So discussing it when there's an issue, we want to take evasive maneuvers.
If you two really love each other, talk to each other.
Deleting the guy's number might worsen it. Just give him time. Then sit down and discuss your feelings. It may not be you. It maybe him. They only way to know is to talk.
Tell him (IN PRIVATE) that maybe you two should wait awhile before you two retry having sex.
I hope that this helps you. If you need more info, you can email me or IM me. Thanx
2006-07-29 17:51:17 · answer #2 · answered by redheadjohn1977 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes u did
It was the right thing to do because if u called him twice and didnt answer then he dosent really care about or u need to give him some time off and when he is ready he will call u back when he is good and ready
2006-07-29 17:39:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh yeah you did. He obviously was a reject who wasn't mature. I always erase the number out of the phone when guys dont call back. I dont like being a pest and I dont like guys making me feel like I'm one. You did good. If he calls though the ball is in your court..............Good Luck with that fool.
2006-07-29 17:37:24 · answer #4 · answered by skyblu513 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont wory about it a man will be a man. You have the power.. you have to know when to take them out the box, and when to put them back in the box. Men come a dime a dossen dont sweat it.
2006-07-29 17:38:59 · answer #5 · answered by day day 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You did do da right thing. He dont want 2 answer u, ok then move on.
2006-07-29 17:38:40 · answer #6 · answered by brokenintears 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By the sounds of it, he is seeing someone else. AKA, you did the right thing. Move on and forget about him.
2006-07-29 17:38:06 · answer #7 · answered by SXCJessie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You Sure Did I would do the same after calling him or her and there not picking up Or Maybe he is Gay?
2006-07-29 17:39:22 · answer #8 · answered by O G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You did the right thing, the guy sounds like a loser.
2006-07-29 17:35:57 · answer #9 · answered by Jack 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you did the right thing if he really was into you he would of called you back....good going girl stand ur ground
2006-07-29 17:40:22 · answer #10 · answered by April 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES, you did the right thing he is a jerk and you deserve better..move on
2006-07-29 17:37:20 · answer #11 · answered by Honey 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋