I've been going out with my boyfriend since March 20...and I know this is love...i can feel it, and i care about him a whole lot. The other night he was talking to me and he said:
"Dont' say you love me, unless you really do" and i asked him what he ment...and he said "We don't even act like were together, we act like friends"...and i've never been around real love before, my parents don't show eachother love, my sisters boyfriends are always jerks...so i dont' know how to act...and i really want to show him that i care about him and that i love him more than anything...i know he's not expecting sex...because he's not like that...So, basically i need to know how to act as a girlfriend...how to be around him...how to show him that i love him, and care about him more than anything...
**Sorry so long, it would help ya'll if ya'll knew everything. Thankz in advance!!
God Bless!!!
2006-07-29 17:08:34 · 5 answers · asked by Nanner♥ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
oh wow...
that's a tall order.
well... assuming he believes in the concept of the golden rule, all you'll have to do, is do what he does, try to be more like him.
be nice to him.
kissing is nice...
romantic stuff is great.
...
it's nothing sexual you say?
I believe you entirely, I'll explain why in sources but yea...
kissing and hugging
romantic dinners
try cooking
show him...
...
hey why don't you try watching some movies?
with good people who are dating.
it'll help perhaps...
2006-07-29 17:11:06 · answer #1 · answered by The greatest and the best. 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well true fully. he should not have any doubts that you love him. Are you yourself, Do you treat him with respect. Are you committed to him and only him. Do you do nice things for him and he also does nice things for you. When you look in his eyes is there no doubt that he loves every aspect about you. Besides sex is there anyway you could possibly think that you have not shown this guy that you love him. If all the questions above have been answered in your head. Without including sex. Then come out and ask him why does he think that you don't truly love him. Because strait honesty is everything in a relationship. If he truly, honestly loves you he will tell you why and you two can correct this problem without having sex. Good luck on your quest for love. Be yourself.
2006-07-29 17:21:47 · answer #2 · answered by lovely soul with insite 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello ok you want to know i will help you out listen ok I am a guy just to tell you. When you see him for the first time of the day give him a hug and kiss when you go out with him always say how nice he looks today then when you go somewhere hold hands or put your arm around his arem like at the mall or picnic. as you hold hands once in a while stop put you arms around him but don't squeeze him and tell him you love him and give him a kiss on the lips and tell him you are haveing a good time with him and where would he like to eat for lunch or dinner depending on what time it is. when he awnsers you you hold his habd again and continue walking. all this comes with love for your man. at the end of the night you don't have to hold hands when you reach the door of his or her house or if you enter and call his name and put your arms around him and again tell him you had a fun day and kiss him on the lips and if you want make a move to sleep with him and then one thing will lead to another and there you have it do that everytime you go out with him and you should be fine but the sleeping part don't have to be every night you see him. If you like what i said keep my email jpaone1@yahoo.com and email me if you have anymore questions
2006-07-29 18:06:10 · answer #3 · answered by jpaone1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I love when girls are very affectionate, and treat me with consideration and respect and don't play games with my emotions. I just really like affectionate girls. This is how I would like to be treated.
2006-07-29 17:14:08 · answer #4 · answered by Mr. Mojo Rising 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"You love who you love. Never be sorry about it"
2006-07-29 17:14:59 · answer #5 · answered by Umpalumpa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋