My girlfriend went to a reception and called me driving with drunk people to a liquor store(she was the one driving), shes only 16 doesnt have a license, then she called me telling me she was going to the afterparty and the girl she was driving with is drunk, I'm furious about this whole thing, is it wrong of me?? (she hasnt drank, but shes acting like a child and is being very risky, she could get hurt or something or introuble with the law) is this wrong of me honestly?
2006-07-29 17:05:55 · 16 answers · asked by Åⓝⓞⓝⓨⓜⓞⓤ§ 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No. but don't make her think you have an attitude .nobody likes to be preached to. tell her you care about her and the mistakes she makes now could hurt your plans for life later. if she doesn't slow down maybe she's not mature enough for you and you're gonna wind up hurt emotionally and her maybe physically , definitely legally. talk about it though.cause if you don't you might blow-up about something silly later,cause this is buggin' you. good luck,pretty ain't always smart! pick wisely young master!
2006-07-29 17:16:22 · answer #1 · answered by unklkvn308 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it shouldn't piss you off, it should worry you though. She is in some danger, but atleast shes not drinking. Tell her you're worried, because it worries me when my gf drives her drunk sister, but as long as your gf isnt drinking, she should be able to keep control and handle the situation. Don't be mad, be worried, and let her know you are. It could influence what she does and she will know you care. Call to check and make sure shes ok every once in a while since shes around drunk ppl
2006-07-29 17:10:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah you should be mad. She shouldn't driving without a lisense with drunk people or even going to drinking parties. If her friend is drunk, it sounds like that person dosen't need to go to no afterparty either. At she ain't drunk though and she isn't letting her friend drive even though the temptation is there for her to drink.
2006-07-29 17:12:34 · answer #3 · answered by sky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i personally don't think that you're at all wrong for being pissed at her. She put her life in danger driving when she shouldn't be, and with a group of drunk friends to top it off with. You never know what could have happened, and she should of at least took your feelings about the situation into account. Because she really should realize that you might have a disagreement with her putting herself in danger like that. so yea that's about all i have to say about that.
2006-07-29 17:13:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she has no license to drive, you have a right to be upset. Let her know how you feel and if she wants to continue that type of behavior, you might want to consider breaking up with her. She could be headed for trouble behaving that way.
2006-07-29 17:12:22 · answer #5 · answered by Kyanne 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, u could b conserned. y should she b driving w/o a license, she shouldnt even b driving when shes drunk!!! and she doesnt have the right to boss u around with drunks. u should b mad
2006-07-29 17:10:16 · answer #6 · answered by Catherine C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, she is going to get herself killed. Teen drunk drivers are a huge hazard to themselves and others. Her parents need to know. If she keeps up this dangerous behavior, she could be an early stage alcoholic. Run, don't walk, to get away from her.
2006-07-29 17:09:57 · answer #7 · answered by notyou311 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are 100% right to be angry. she acted carelessly and without thought of the consequences. however, don't let anger take over your mind. keep an eye out and make sure your mind is clear. make sure she is aware of what she did and how it affected you. don't make it all about you, but make sure she realizes th downsides to what she did. good luck!!
2006-07-29 17:17:40 · answer #8 · answered by kiatzu_shutendo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutly not!
But, do you get worried about alot of other stuff too, that might not be as legit? 'Cause if shes pissed you're worried (which I'm guessing she is) than it might not be just about this.
2006-07-29 17:10:22 · answer #9 · answered by Justin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think it is wrong for you to be upset with this and it is good that you are concerned about her. i think you need to talk to her about how you feel. if she doesnt care then maybe you should get rid of her.
2006-07-29 17:09:20 · answer #10 · answered by ::Hannah:: 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋