me and my gf have been datn for 3 yrs now. but more than half of it has been long distance. when she lived here things were absolutly fantastic. about a year after she moved things were still great. and over the last year things have kinda went downhill and we are kinda growing away from each other. i cant see her because she says she wont have anytime to see me. everytime i talk about comming there she hangs up on me and gets all pissed off sooo what do i do about that? but she sure as hell has time to go see a movie with a guy and kiss his cheek cuz he asked her out.. wtf? so i cant do anything in person, but what can i do to make this relationship stronger like it use to be when she 1st moved away? i want to be close to her again and i dont want us to draw away from each other. so what kind of things can i do to make the relationship stronger and our love stronger?
2006-07-29 17:03:31 · 5 answers · asked by xtremecrakhed 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sorry, she's found someone else.
2006-07-29 17:07:02 · answer #1 · answered by Justsyd 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, since it's like that with her, then the next time u talk with her u should tell her that ur seeing someone( even if ur not) but she don't know, tell her ur seeing someone who ur getting serious with, if she thinks ur with someone she may start to become more serious with u.
If not then u may have to face the fact that u have to move on sweetie, I kmow it's hard( believe me I KNOW) but u have to think of yourself and u want to be either happy or stay and always have issues and drama with htis girl.
I mean for her to hangup on u is just rude.
So please stop hoping something will change and make plans to move on without her, she sounds like she's moved on so u do the same
2006-07-30 00:23:09 · answer #2 · answered by itspink22@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems like it's probably time to let her go and move on with your life. She's made it clear to you that she doesn't want you there with her and you also mention she's going out with some other guy(s) too. I know it's a hard time you're going through, but, time is a great healer.
2006-07-30 00:12:07 · answer #3 · answered by Sensei 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her how she feels. you can't change her feelings. you can only control you. you can tell her how you feel. that's it or you can surprise visit her, but from the sound of things that would hurt you.
2006-07-30 00:10:53 · answer #4 · answered by guiltyinnosense 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get over her. Sucks but you can't make her stay with you.
2006-07-30 00:17:10 · answer #5 · answered by starsekker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋