I'm a 19 years male I can't stop thinking about girls I respect them so much I'll do whatever they say, Everywhere I go I see them but I don't have the curage to go talk to them. I need a girlfriend very badly. How can I get a girlfriend ? Please Help !
2006-07-29 16:58:06 · 18 answers · asked by O G 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
first of all, u dont NEEd a girlfriend, when the time is right u will get one, believe in urself man, dont be scared of rejection just ask the girl out
2006-07-29 17:00:26 · answer #1 · answered by pikoman 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Girls don't like guys to do WHATEVER they say, it sounds desparate and needy, and a lot of people just can't be idolized like that, they need to be respected yes, but they also need to know that the other person can be a rock to them in a time of emotional need. Take the pressure off yourself, make your goal not to find a girlfriend, but to be a FRIEND first. Some girls LIKE shy guys (I always did... I'm married now). You need to do things like open doors for complete strangers, making that all important eye contact and smile. If she drops something rush to pick it up, you would be surprised at how these small and simple gestures can make a big difference. But first of all you just need to RELAX and be yourself. Also a girl will find you MORE attractive if you are a happy and complete person outside of being in a relationship, so work on being happy with yourself before you go and try to make someone else happy.
2006-07-30 00:05:32 · answer #2 · answered by Kat__hleen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get your *** off Yahoo Questions and start going out, not necessary bars and clubs. If you go to college join a club or something. Stop being shy. Stop thinking you need a girlfriend and start enjoying life man! There is someone out there for everybody and besides its the summer time....find something to do. Again get off Yahoo Questions, get self-esteem and start talking to some girls already!!!
2006-07-30 00:05:22 · answer #3 · answered by skyblu513 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be nice and talk to them. And never stop respecting the girls! Get up the courage and talk to them. You can do it!
2006-07-30 00:00:57 · answer #4 · answered by chariot804 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Suck it up and talk to them! Girls like confident guys that give them attention. If a girl catches your eye, go strike up a conversation with them. Complement them a little too. If they are single, I'm sure they'll go for you!
2006-07-30 00:03:18 · answer #5 · answered by happy311 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be brave and have the courage to go up to a girl and say "how are ya doin'" or "want to play a game" and then they sure will maybe go out with you or sumthin! good luck!
2006-07-30 00:02:27 · answer #6 · answered by mikey_rulz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude, seriously, grow some balls and ask them out. I girl likes a guy who is confident. Be a man....if you don't start now you'll be a living with your mom for the rest of your life.
2006-07-30 00:01:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to stand up for yourself and have some courage. Don't act like you will take anything you can get. Confidence is really sexy, i promise
2006-07-30 00:02:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait your 19 and never had a girlfriend umm thats freaking weird
2006-07-30 00:01:59 · answer #9 · answered by blonde_ambition 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is that as if asking if there is a store that sells girlfriend?
time will tell you when someone is right there for you
2006-07-30 00:02:57 · answer #10 · answered by frizzy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋