A week ago I txt my ex who I haven't talked for a few months to apologize because I wasa b-i-t-c-h with him. I was a b-i-t-c-h with him because I told him it was better to stop talking ( I was never going to be one of his priorites). Anyhow I txt him a week ago, and exchanged txts to see how each of us were doing. It's been a few days since I dont receive one of his txts. He now has a girlfriend, but i can't seem to let go. What's wrong with me? Should I expect to hear from him?
2006-07-29 16:48:22 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no let go and move on.....ok
2006-07-29 16:53:07 · answer #1 · answered by William E A 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Love sometimes sucks, breakups are painful and the comfort of a old relationship is easier than a new. He moved on, he may still care for you too but knows deep down it is not the right time to be with you. He may come back later, but then you may have moved on.
I recommend giving yourself some time, hang out with your friends, buy a couple new outfits, go out, have fun with being single, you can't force love, it just happens and usually when you do not expect it.
I have felt like this some lasted as long as 6 months even if I broke up. I still to this day have feelings for those guys even though I now know it was not meant to be.
2006-07-29 23:56:31 · answer #2 · answered by Lynette R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have no right to expect anything from him....You're the one that told him to stop talking.....so he did, and he moved on, girl you can't expect anything from him.....He moved on, so should you! Find someone else, or maybe you felt like you were not ready for a relationship.....It happens to me often, once I have a guy's love I just push him away, and I don't know why......But sometimes we have to know what we want otherwise we will lose really nice people on the way! Good Luck
2006-07-30 00:09:05 · answer #3 · answered by hey_tiger_83 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry love but I don't think u will hear back from him if he likes his new gf. As far as what is wrong witchu, maybe nuttin' but I don't know anything 'bout u. If ur kind and considerate there probably is nuttin' wrong witchu. Try to consider how u treat others, that should show u what kind a person u r and if there's something wrong witchu. Good luck letting go.
2006-07-30 00:01:34 · answer #4 · answered by Todd N 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might just be feeling some regret over how you had acted. just relax. sort out you're life and let him sort out his. maybe you'll meet in the middle, but don't put all your eggs in one basket. just remember that life is uncertain. what could be the absolute worst of sorrows one day could be the the greatest of joys the next. Best of luck to you. May the road rise to meet your feet on the path you choose to walk.
2006-07-30 00:10:15 · answer #5 · answered by kiatzu_shutendo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure you will hear from him between girlfriends. If you weren't one of his priorities a few months ago what makes you think you are now. And if he was walking all over you then he will surely do it again.
2006-07-29 23:55:23 · answer #6 · answered by Lori L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're too independently minded, and maybe selfish. If he has a new gf, he's likely given up on you and perhaps even disowned you. And perhaps thinks you ended it with him. That would explain his failure to reply to your text messaging, as would a change in cell phone's phone number and wanting to save on the bill.
2006-07-29 23:53:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
like the same thing happened to me....after like a week of being sad or whatever i finally relized to give and like there are soo many better guys in the world i promise just dont think about him anymore or talk to him it makes it worse.
2006-07-29 23:53:23 · answer #8 · answered by blonde_ambition 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probley not. Sounds like he's moved on. It'll take time you will someday be over him too. I'm sure of it. Someday you'll pass eachother and not notice eachother at all.
2006-07-29 23:54:30 · answer #9 · answered by missgigglebunny 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is wrong with you?
You are still missing him, apparently (check this word up if you have no idea what it means), so you wanted to hear from him.
Try not to miss him.
Try not to treat him as part of you.
That's not that difficult.
2006-07-29 23:54:33 · answer #10 · answered by Adrienne 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NOTHING IS WRONG WITH YOU, BUT YOU SAID YOUR
SORRY, AND THAT WAS GOOD. BUT MOVE ON, HE HAS
A GIRLFRIEND NOW,TIME TO LET GO, AND FIND SOME
ONE NEW.
2006-07-29 23:54:07 · answer #11 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋