I work with her, and I can't flirt with her because we are both in relationships. So, I am just mean to her because of the frustration. What should I do?
2006-07-29 16:33:49 · 28 answers · asked by andre 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well maybe you should rething your own relationship first of all if you have a crush on another girl. But stop trying to be mean to her and just talk to her. You won't die m talking to her. Maybe you'll find out something you didn't know about her, you never know what will happen until you try. But being mean isn't the solution because it will only cause more tension between the 2 of you. Good luck
2006-07-29 16:37:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. Stop being mean to her.
2. Acknowledge that you like her even if it is only in your own head.
3. Reevaluate you own relationship.
4. If you find that you are still like or live with your current girlfriend step back and enjoy this woman’s friendship and only her friendship
5. Mabey some day when you are out of this relationship if that every happens you can try to get this girl that you are crushing on.
2006-07-29 23:40:04 · answer #2 · answered by Ryce Queen 13 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
figure out if you want to be in your relationship if you like someone else. and stop being mean if you both end up not in a relationship at the same time you think she is going to want to talk to someone that is mean to her? treat her like you would if she were your friend, but don't flirt that is mean to your girlfriend and if she flirts back to want a girl who is going to flirt with you when she has a boyfriend?
2006-07-29 23:38:01 · answer #3 · answered by guiltyinnosense 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be kind. If the relationships (the two of you are in) don't work out for some reason you have a chance to end up dating her she'll NEVER go for you if you're being cruel to her! Change, it's that simple. Treat her with respect.
2006-07-29 23:37:26 · answer #4 · answered by chariot804 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you should be mean to her next time you work bring her flowers with a note that said flowers mean I'm sorry and chocolate means I love and I hope sooner or later we can get to the chocolate stage but would you like to start off with flowers and a date
2006-07-29 23:37:46 · answer #5 · answered by phillyhottie000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with the last part that Lemon said. If you're going out with someone, you should not be messing with another girl. If you think you could take this crush farther, then let the other one go. and don't be mean to that poor girl. You're just confusing the sh*t out of her
2006-07-29 23:38:43 · answer #6 · answered by one_sera_phim 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
then break up wit your g/f and just tell the girl you like that she looks pretty ever day- trust me it will cheer her up alot-- offer to take her to lunch or dinner or brunch and help her if she is in need- even though she isnt single it doesnt mean you dont have the right to flirt wit her
good luck babe
alyssaâ¥
2006-07-29 23:37:33 · answer #7 · answered by ♥ sexxxy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How in the world do you ever expect her to take any notice to you if you let your frustrations interfere. Just be nice and show her who your really are and see what becomes of it.
2006-07-29 23:37:05 · answer #8 · answered by ♥Sunflower 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her how you feel before she misunderstands you for not liking her. Tell her you don't want the both of you guys to get fired or people in the work area to start talking. She should understand. Otherwise, she might think youre mad at her or not interested in her.
2006-07-29 23:35:55 · answer #9 · answered by vietlitogrl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like a helpless romantic story
its just a crush. maybe you like her in some way your girl doesn't possess but mind you you have a girlfriend dont you cheat on her and hurt her..if your confused take a break and reflect on your feelings...dont be a two timer its either you'll win this girls heart or loose your current or worse both...do consider
2006-07-29 23:43:31 · answer #10 · answered by frizzy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋