how did u feel ?advice me i am 14?

Question

when ur lose virginity?wats the correct age to lose it?

Answer 1

When you are married. You are too young to be talking about such matters.

Answer 2

Ur virginity is not something to just throw away. You should b proud to still have it, if u do. At least wait til u know ur ready and by that I mean responsible enough to handle the consequences of ur actions. B careful with ur self and grow up well-mannored and responsible. I kept my vivginity til i was 17 and am proud for keeping it so long but at the same time I'm dissapointed in myself for losing it when I did, but I have learned that I am responsible for my actions. Keep ur virginity to ur self and no one will tease u 'bout it if that's what ur worried about. Keep it and stay safe!

Answer 3

I would wait till you are old enough to take the responsibility that follows. 14 isnt old enough to take care of a baby responsibly if you get pregnant. If you have sex before a commitment 9 out of 10 times the guy drops you cuz he got what he wanted. You have plenty of time to fall in Love and you will know when it is the right person and the right time. Plus make sure if you do have sex which I hope you dont for awhile....you make sure the other person does not have any diseases, you are far too young to be left with that stress on your mind.

Answer 4

I think there is no "correct" age! But I think waiting until you are married so you can tell your husband that you saved it for him and only him!!And you shouldn't think about losing your virginity at the age 14!

Answer 5

I lost it at 15. It hurt like hell. I did it to do it cuz everyone else was. {I know, I suck}. Totally wait until you love the person. I know at your age, love comes very easy when you first start a relationship. But it won't be love until you are a bit older and truly know. Unfortunately, most teens will have sex ultimately no matter what anyone says. I was that teen. I was also that teen who contracted HPV at 16 {Human Papiloma Virus} and got the strain {there's over a hundred} that caused cervical cancer. Thankfully the cancerous cells were removed, but not after botched surgery. Adoption is the only option I have now. At your age, I did not care at all. But I wished I did. Baby girl, don't end up like me with too many cats {they replace my kids I can't have}, wait. Please.

Answer 6

14 is definatley too young. I am only 16 and just lost mine a few months ago, I was still sixteen. I still think thats too young but if the time comes and u really love the other person then just do it... if not wait till the right time or until ur married.

Answer 7

You are the only one who can know the right age for when to lose it. Keeping your innocence is always important. But to some loosing it young is a must, but many people save themselves for the one they love until marriage, like Adriana Lima. You shouldn't just loose your virginity to some kid when you are young, because remember once it is gone, you never get it back.

Answer 8

I wouldn't worry about such things at this point of your life. But usually the best time is when you're sure you're ready for a serious relationship and all that goes along with a sexual relationship. I would seriously doubt that you're at that point at 14. I was 18 when I lost mine and I wasn't even ready.

Answer 9

You should wait untill you are at least 18 or untill you are married. It will be more special the longer you wait. You really dont need sex it is just something to do. Just think if you have sex too early you might wind up with a kid way too early!

Answer 10

Yo, I'm 14 too

And I gotta say, sex at 14 is way too young

Marriage is when you should have sex and only then

I don't need to have sex to have a good life

There are way to many people trying to have sex at a young age. Just wait. STDs aren't worth it. Just 'cause it's done on TV doesn't mean it's right
It's stupid
It's wrong
Just wait

Answer 11

Every person is different....sex isn't a big deal like it used to be. I lost mine when I was 15, with no regrets. Sex is an important part of a relationship...a way to totally connect with someone. If you wait till marriage to do it, you may end up with someone who can not fulfill your needs. Just be safe if you decide to do it!