to u think it is wrong?

Question

ok have liked this guy 4 almost a year and i found out that he plays tennis like 5 mounths ago and i would like to ask him to teach me how to play tennis he plays in high school and get to now him better any now i now that i have now change with him because he is in high school and i am only in 8 th grade i now he likesme but i think the only reason he has not asked me out is because of what is friends would think i'm going to be 14 in now and he is going to be 17 in dec are u getting this i luv this guy or at least i like him and the main reason i want to learn how to play tennis is because of him

Answer 1

Windy (Hey, that's my mom's name. The W part too! ^_^)
I think what you have for this guy is sweet. And age, only 3 years difference shouldn't stop you from acting on your feelings. Just make sure this guy, is sincere like you are. He could be a not so good guy, be careful about this. Seriously. If he is a good guy, then asking for lessons is a good way for you to show you admire him and want to spend time with him. Just make sure you two feel the same way about EVERYTHING.

Ya know, just be safe. I can't say that enough. If you feel he likes you, for you and not because you like him or any other perverse reason then let the guy know how you feel by spending time with him With tennis. Remember, he will be 3 grades ahead although your time in high school. Also know, that people that have feelings for each other, do become boyrfriend and girlfriend with each other regardless of a few years.

Make sure you know the guy before you make any moves. Maybe invite him to meet your parents so that will make things more comfortable. Well, maybe that won't be too comfortable, I'm 16 myself, but it's important you stay safe. Okay?

You seem like a nice girl. Follow your heart, and do everything to look out for yourself. If you have anymore questions be sure to ask I'm here. : ) Getting help is key.

Answer 2

You are too young for him honey. You need to find someone your own age 14 to 17 is a big difference. Do you really like tennis or just the time you spend with him? Give someone else a chance you may be surprised .

Answer 3

if u r still only 14 u r still too young to have a date ,u emotions will change when u get 17 or 28 so take it easy and dont say i love him cause u r still too young for that. if u want to have him as a friend its ok go ahead and ask him to teach u tennis. good luck

Answer 4

Yes i think that your poem and or essay is very wrong.
even your title is misspelled, to=do? or is "u_think_it_is_wrong? a place, and this isn't a question at all? your 'i's should be capital, and you have run-on sentences. Luv is spelled love and so much more. F- - for you.

Answer 5

YES , IT WRONG YOU SHOULD NOT DO THINGS THAT
YOU DONT WONT TO DO. JUST TO GET WITH THIS
YOUNG MAN, IF YOU REALLY LIKE HIM THEN TELL HIM
BUT DONT DO THIS BECAUSE OTHERS PEOPLE THAT
REALLY WANT TO LEARN TENNIS MAY NOT GET THE
CHANGE, AND FOR THE RECORD. YOUR CHANGE OF
GETTING WITH HIM MAY BE SLIM HE 17, YOU ARE
TO YOUNG FOR HIM. HE MAY THINK.

Answer 6

It would be perfectly all right. You'd be asking him to teach you something, afterall not to have sex with you. There's a difference between tutor and companion.

Answer 7

simple ask him if he likes you. rather than writhing in agony wondering. the worse thing that could happen is that he says he doesn't and you get over it and like someone better. or he could say that he likes you too. but you'll never know unless you ask.

Answer 8

Move On!

Answer 9

Please get a life. Boys aren't everything, if you plan your life around the possibility of getting with a boy, you will be disappointed every time.

Answer 10

to learn tenning loving him is not necessary. as a friend you can tell him your needs