How do you tell a significant other that they need to loose weight?

Question

She's a female.

Answer 1

If her health is in danger by the extra weight then I would suggest opening with "I love you very much and I want us to have as much time together as possible. I'm concerned about your weight because it's affecting your health. I love you and you're beautiful...I just don't want to see anything happen to you and I want you to feel your best. Let's work on this together." But...be sure that it truly is a health issue and not your own selfish want. If she is overweight but there are no adverse affects because of it than love her the way she is. If you are unable to do this it sounds as though you have the problem...not her. Take care and I hope you have an amazing day!

Answer 2

You simply say honey I love you just the way you are and I want you to be with me for a long time. If you gain too much wait it's not healthy, your back and knees can't take any extra weight because you are a woman with a petite frame,and I don't want you to feel uncomfortable.....ever...and first you should probably make sure she isn't pregnant! Hey maybe you shoul just act really happy like your expecting her to give you great news about being pregnant and when she can't figure out why you are so happy you can just say, "I can't wait any longer, when are you due? And act like you are really upset that she hasn't shared the news with you yet, when she says she's not and why did you think so, just do what men do... avoid ever talking about it again and eventually she'll realize she is getting fat! That might work.

Answer 3

This is not a question for the guys because they don't know the answer. You don't...do you? If her health is in jeopardy, suggest it as a means for improving her health. If it's not, then maybe you could suggest that the two of you (you too) need to start being more concerned about living a more healthy lifestyle. Both of you should start eating more healthy and you both shoulld start exercising together....bicycling, swimming, walking, dancing.

Answer 4

If physical characteristics are something that you need to be modified, you should look in your inner self and ask whether she is happy with herself or not.

If she is, then leave it be, unless it;'s a health condition. Best live happy 'till you die.

If it's something intfering with her health, then you should casually mention your weight, to get her to understand the idea.

"Hey [blank] do you think I'm gaining alot of weight lately?"

Just slowly nudge her to the fact by mentioning your self consciousness.

Answer 5

I would leave a picture of a pachyderm on the fridge with a caption; "does this look familiar?

Answer 6

say this it will work:

i swear, i dont feel good about myself. i feel tired every morning i wake up. she will tell u how she thinks

then say: but i did read sumwhere that exercising helps so i was talking to my boys and hanging, chillin, and i wanna go to the gym, but i dont want the other girls there looking at me. so u wanna come with.

she will say no


then u say: plz? we will work out together and one, ill feel good and recharged in morning and ull look so sexy

Answer 7

say jokingly , when my wife/gf sits around the house she really sits around the house , or just come out and say like alota guys do , you stay a certain weight or i dump you

Answer 8

You know the treadmill......yeah...well.....if you run on it long enough....you will win a billion dollars. That should burn off mad calories. lol.

Answer 9

'hey fat a-s-s you're blocking my view of the sun'.

Answer 10

you don't --unless you want to be single.