My ex and I broke up 3.5 years ago and since, both of us have had another serious relationship. I always knew if I got the second chance, I would go for it. WE met out drinking one night, because someone gave me his number and I ended up having my sister call and him and his friends met us all up there. We went back to his place and slept together once that night, and two more times the next morning. He dropped me off at my parents where my son was, and was a little reluctant to come in. I think I'm reading way to much into this, please help! Also he hasn't called, but we left each other today at 12:30 after he hung out with me at my dads for an hour and a half. So what does he feel right now, any advice?
2006-07-29 15:47:57 · 10 answers · asked by Whitknee 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just take it easy, you know, we normally care way more about the ex, then they do about us, this might not be the case, but alot of time, they just want some and they don't even think enough of the woman to just say that, but after we sleep with them again, we're back on cloud nine. most of the time, an ex is an ex for a reason and when i see them and i see them all the time, most of the time, sex is all they want and i don't give them any or even deal with them on that level because i always go back to why we broke up or what it was about them that drove me to leave them in the first place and normally, the apple don't fall far from the tree, meaning, they are still who they used to be. If he doesn't call, it's gonna be hard, i can see your going through it now, but trust me, it's for the best some things are best left alone...ex's are one of them.
2006-07-29 16:05:43 · answer #1 · answered by Lene B 2 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Take Your Time,Some Guys Don't Rush Into Any Commitments Easily,Some Never Do,See How It Plays Out,Don't Rush The Man,Keep Throwing The Stuff On Him He'll Be Like A Little Poo Tang Junkie,(Mission Accomplished)
2006-07-29 15:57:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men don't attach emotion to sex, women do. You do otherwise you wouldn't be thinking about what he is feeling. It means he had sex and he didn't have to take you out or put very much effort into it and you involved alcohol so you had an excuse. You didn't meet up with him and he gave you his number. Someone gave you his number and you had your sister call, not a good sign. He might have hung out with you to be nice. Unless he calls you and wants to see you as in take you out somewhere and not just for sex I wouldn't read too much into it except a booty call.
2006-07-29 15:55:48 · answer #3 · answered by guiltyinnosense 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he hasn't contacted you since, it was a one night stand. You may have to make the first move if you want more than that.
2006-07-29 16:06:04 · answer #4 · answered by jay23_33 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
um u still love this guy and he is the right one for u and i think u should take him as ur bf and then if it works out with yall for about three yrs then maybe he will ask u to marry him and if he does say YES HEACK YES!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-07-29 15:55:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't know, if I went out with my ex I would be thinking "thank God I'm not with you anymore"
2006-07-29 15:53:05 · answer #6 · answered by Nobody 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't hold him to a relationship .. It just doesn't sound as if there is or will be one between you and him..
2006-07-29 16:13:55 · answer #7 · answered by StarShine G 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps he feels he won!, he's done you! Perhaps he's not a responsible person.
2006-07-29 15:52:37 · answer #8 · answered by farshicago 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well ur clearly not iver him.. he is over u ....... he just used u for sex........ forget him ...move on with ur life......find urself a real man...
2006-07-29 15:52:34 · answer #9 · answered by blacktears2006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your a WHORE.........
2006-07-29 15:51:01 · answer #10 · answered by Bryan D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋