he's dating a woman 10 years his senior but she honestly looks 20 years older than him the worst thing about it is she talks about him and degrades all the time I want to knock her out but for my brothers sake I havent.............I cant imagine that he's with her........
Its so bad I wish I could post the picture up to get feedback And yes its that bad......................
2006-07-29 15:46:37 · 7 answers · asked by Tasha 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
He's your brother, It's not good that you
can see what she is truely like. He cares
about her and your love and understanding
are what counts when he is around.
You could even mention to her when your
alone that you'd like her to be more positive
and not air on the side of negative when it
comes to your brother that you'd be supportive
of a more trusting relationship.
In the end it will true out all right, he'll see it
one day.
2006-07-29 16:07:17 · answer #1 · answered by tychi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, unfortunately, if your brother is 18 or over, there isn't really anything you can do about it. Ask him if he LOVES her or if he is just in this relationship for sex? If it's just for the sex I wouldn't worry about it as men and women hit their sexual peeks at different times (men in their 20ish's and women in their 40ish's)
If he loves this woman, maybe you should ask him Why? and ask him if he knows if she is speaking badly about him behind his back. (she has some nerve to be trashing him to his family). But if he is truly in love with her, what you say probably won't matter because we can't help who we fall in love with. Maybe he sees past the looks and outer appearance, and sees something that you can't. Who knows, just ask him and you will soon get you answer. GOOD LUCK!
2006-07-29 16:04:47 · answer #2 · answered by chulita 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you may have to bite the bullet on this one. only offer advice when it's requested because if something should go bad and they breakup and you start dogging her and then they get back together you will easily become the bad guy. It doesn't hurt to tell your bother how you feel though but once you do leave it alone
2006-07-29 15:52:39 · answer #3 · answered by donise225 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off the age difference has nothing to do with the way she treats him!!! It is her!! what can you do about it!! well nothing really it is his choice!
Only thing maybe is to tell your brother how you feel and tell him to tell her not to treat him that way around you!!
Until then just don't say anything until she really steps out of line and then you step in!!
But I do know how you feel my brother-in-law had one just like her and many of times I had to bite my tongue when I was around her!! Thank goodness they are no longer together!!
Good Luck!!
2006-07-29 15:56:05 · answer #4 · answered by DeeDee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't Be Too Hard On The Old Hag,Old Hags Need Luvin Too!
2006-07-29 15:51:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not your place to do anything. Its their relationship and maybe he sees something about her that you don't.
Besides, how would you feel if he felt this way about some guy you were dating? would you want him to "do something" or leave you alone?
2006-07-29 15:52:22 · answer #6 · answered by neona807 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
slap the other woman
2006-07-29 15:49:59 · answer #7 · answered by chrispcp93 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋