2006-07-29 15:40:52 · 26 answers · asked by huston513 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you don't look for love it will come to you
2006-07-29 16:23:30 · answer #1 · answered by rotbrandy 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm am so sorry most of your responses have been so mean.
There are ways to meet guys that don't care about your size or even love your weight. If you are settled on online dating, then be forthcoming about your size. Let them know you're a BBW.
Or, you could try sites just for big people.
www.largefriends.com is excellent!
Good luck!
2006-07-29 15:53:58 · answer #2 · answered by long_ebony_locs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey, i'm sure your beautiful and girl from one big sister to another, it's all about confidence. You have to love YOU first, then the rest comes naturally. i'm a thick sista and i know i'm fine not conceited, just confident. My personality speaks for me most of time, i love to laugh, to dress nice, smell good, keep my hair and nails done but most of all, i'm real. Guys love confidence, go get your man girl, you can do it...smile I'm not sure how old you are, because i don't want you to find the wrong man, or someone out of your age range, but they have a lot of online dating sites, that are anoymous, try them first, but proceed with the same caution you do when dealing with anyone online. And it'll come, don't rush love, when it's right, it's right and i believe that in time, your mr. right will come, just be patient but while your being patient, check out the dating sites...smile
2006-07-29 15:47:47 · answer #3 · answered by Lene B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am plus size too, I never have a problem meeting new people and I get asked out alot, a lot of people look at looks, but more people look at the person you are. I have a very bubbly personality and make people feel comfortable about themself and not afraid, maybe you should try the same.
2006-07-29 15:46:26 · answer #4 · answered by drama_xxx_queen28 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even being a man, I would say that it is hard to find a good one of us online... And finding true love online is rare. You need to get out there and try to meet people in your community.
2006-07-29 15:44:31 · answer #5 · answered by chisoxfan1979 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't look online for love.You'll have better luck at finding a QUALITY mate if you get out of the house and do things you enjoy. Make sure you carry yourself with confidence. For a lot of men, it's not so much your size as it is your comfort level with yourself.
2006-07-29 15:45:30 · answer #6 · answered by carmilysmom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been fortunate on line. Starting in the BBW chat room, and many others. They are out there. You just have to be patient and keep looking, and of course, weed out all the creeps and pervs. Good luck to you.
2006-07-29 16:07:00 · answer #7 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you dont have to loose wait..that is a terrible answer. there are lots of guys out there keep looking try hanging out in the BBW areas, but dont limit your self on line that is not the best place to find true love
2006-07-29 15:43:38 · answer #8 · answered by rockon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
online attempts are a real crap shoot. they also can be dangerous. They can't see your heart which is where the true connection comes. true love comes with time. get help with people you trust. lose weight for health, not for love. I've seen real big men and women connect with people of all sizes. pick the one that's for you. he's waiting.
2006-07-29 15:49:03 · answer #9 · answered by firechap20 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why dont you try not tryging to find him online..i mean you can meet all kind of freakos online and it would be better just to go to a club and find a guy that way when you dance and move you'll even lose instead of sitting infront of the computer and find frekos online....besides when a person sees some one only then can they judge person by personality,smile,eyes not figure
2006-07-29 15:44:45 · answer #10 · answered by Love Exists? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you think you are fat then it shouldn't matter b/c it's the personality that counts, but you could try losing weight b/c that's when I started becoming noticed. You are a whole knew person. Try that and see the results.
2006-07-29 15:44:54 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋